One of the problems is the dual standard. One argument to support the LGBTQI+ people is such people cannot help feel what they are, and are being true to themselves. Yet, anyone who feels differently and may be true to themselves is censored, if they do not go along.
Heterosexuals are not allowed to feel different. It is possible some people cannot help but disagree with people who constantly define themselves in the shallows of sexual identity. These people have a right to express that. Why censor half of the equation? Shallow can be annoying and too much work.
I remember not too long ago it was gay eights. Then they added the lesbians, and then the Bi's. Soon thereafter they added T, then Q, now it is I and now even+. It is spreading like a social disease.
This spreading like a disease tells me it is really a social construct stemming from a meme virus. It remains me of a fad that is taken too seriously and constantly extrapolated to keep it alive and fresh.. It is healthy to push back. It is called tough love.
This meme virus was brought to you by the same fake news machine that brought you the Russian collusion delusion and many other delusions. It is designed to create conflict via an annoying obsession that is not as real as your think.