wellwisher
Well-Known Member
This line of thinking came to me the other day. It was designed to be an open discussion to contrast male behavior, from the POV of their relationship and interaction with men or women. This could also be extrapolated to the woman's woman and the man's woman. I will leave the latter to be defined by women. The idea is to see is this has changed with time or does this reflect something that is timeless.
A man's man is typically a male with rugged individualism. He can go into the wilderness with minimal resources and tame the wild. He is smart and resourceful like Jame Bond in any situation. He is also a man of character who lives by a code. He can live outside the box and still bring home, game. He is a natural leader and he can bring out the best in other men, since he leads from the front and not the rear. He is not resource intensive, since he can live off the land, with minimal resources, instead of live off the shelf. In war, you want him on your side since he can help you survive.
The lady's man is different. He is more of an illusion since he does not have to deal with reality as much as fantasy. He ofter lacks character, but is more like a character from a movie. He is more resource intensive and likes to buy expensive and stylish things, to use as props to attract the ladies. He is more like a skilled actor, playing a role with his well rehearsed lines and aires of dignity, that he feeds to the ladies. He understands women and uses that knowledge to tell woman what they wish to hear, so they are free to him.
More things can be added to both the man's man and the lady's man. But this should be sufficient to see a contrast. What men see as ideal in other men is different from what they see is needed for men to deal successfully with women. Men feel a need to become more artificial to appeal to women. Men among men want things to be real, self reliant, with practical useful skills. Maybe others can add more detail. I would expect the woman's woman to be similar to the man's man, with the man's women similar to the lady's man. Maybe the women can make their own contrast for women, so we have all the data to compare.
A man's man is typically a male with rugged individualism. He can go into the wilderness with minimal resources and tame the wild. He is smart and resourceful like Jame Bond in any situation. He is also a man of character who lives by a code. He can live outside the box and still bring home, game. He is a natural leader and he can bring out the best in other men, since he leads from the front and not the rear. He is not resource intensive, since he can live off the land, with minimal resources, instead of live off the shelf. In war, you want him on your side since he can help you survive.
The lady's man is different. He is more of an illusion since he does not have to deal with reality as much as fantasy. He ofter lacks character, but is more like a character from a movie. He is more resource intensive and likes to buy expensive and stylish things, to use as props to attract the ladies. He is more like a skilled actor, playing a role with his well rehearsed lines and aires of dignity, that he feeds to the ladies. He understands women and uses that knowledge to tell woman what they wish to hear, so they are free to him.
More things can be added to both the man's man and the lady's man. But this should be sufficient to see a contrast. What men see as ideal in other men is different from what they see is needed for men to deal successfully with women. Men feel a need to become more artificial to appeal to women. Men among men want things to be real, self reliant, with practical useful skills. Maybe others can add more detail. I would expect the woman's woman to be similar to the man's man, with the man's women similar to the lady's man. Maybe the women can make their own contrast for women, so we have all the data to compare.