I was raised nominally Christian, but much more heavily influenced by my deist/ Taoist father. Meaning, he taught me to think for myself, but since Christianity was culturally dominant, I put all my ideas into those terms. Looking back, I had panentheistic and pagan leanings even as a child, seeing God everywhere in nature. However, my primary concept was a loving, protective parent. I was taught that if you had faith, God would take care of you, and I believed it.
When I was about 10, my parents split up. At first, my mother and her new boyfriend had custody, and they were abusive. Because of this, I became an atheist. An infantile "I don't believe in God because He failed me" atheist, but an atheist nonetheless. Then I experienced an intense and transformative theophany. I knew with every fiber of my being, that that was God. I just had to figure out what that meant, lol.
I reverted to... not Christianity, but defintiely theism. In the afterglow of my "vision," I thought God would save me, but He didn't. When a miracle failed to occur, I got bitter again and became a maltheist. In the arrogance of youth, I assumed my theophany was due to a grand destiny, perhaps a Prophet or such. (I know, I know, but what can I say? I was a scared, confused kid.
) Anyway, thanks to my beloved father's careful nurturing of my independent streak, I've always had a bit of a problem with authority. God wanted something from me, giving nothing in return? Screw that! I decided to study religion and find a loophole.
In my studies, the first thing I stumbled across was neopaganism, eco-feminist Goddess worship to be specific. It was a revelation. Here was a concept of God I didn't have to hate. I embraced it wholeheartedly.
The Goddess worship wasn't a perfect fit, though, so after further study I settled on eclectic neopaganism. My defiant pursuit of knowledge became a nobler quest to refine my understanding. My ideas continued to evolve, and eventually I realized that I had outgrown
* neopaganism, broad as that label may be. I had gradually gone from hard polytheism to henotheism, to panentheism and the belief that the Gods were simply beings not so unlike us.
Then there's UU. Some might say I'm no longer a seeker, as I have quite enthusiastically embraced an organized religion. (Screw them, too. ) Anyway, UU is a covenantal, not doctrinal faith. As colorful as my theological beliefs have been, when I sat down and looked at the 7 Principles, I realized that THIS was something I had believed all along. I started going to church regularly, and rejoiced in finally finding a loving, supportive community.
* As my use of the word "outgrown" has given at least one person the wrong impression, a disclaimer: I am NOT, in any way, saying that neopaganism is immature or a "stepping stone." It does not NEED to be outgrown. Quite the contrary, I found - I still find - it beautiful, compelling, and fulfilling. It's just that my beliefs gradually and organically developed into something different. I call that growing.