nutshell
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Ryan2065 said:How are the things you mentioned "barbaric" ? If they were forced upon the women then of course... Society required a man to be successful and a woman to be pretty in those days... If it was forced upon the woman then it was bad, otherwise...
I don't believe something has to be forced upon a woman to be considered barbaric.
However, in the case of the example I gave (foot binding and corsettes) each were forced upon women, IMO, to the extent that women began forcing it upon their daughter and grandaughters. This is exactly what's happening today. I read recently that one of the most popular high-school graduation gifts a mother gives her daughter now are breast implants because they want their daughters to be successful. This was the same reasoning given behind foot binding and corsettes. Women inflicted these barbaric practices upon their children because they wanted them to be successful.
If you don't think these practices are barbaric then I believe you don't know what true footbinding and corsetting was like - it's nothing like what's portrayed in he movies, especialy corsettes. I'll see if I can dig up some descriptive links for the horror lovers.