Talking to my father

[Unveiled Artist]

Have you ever felt you really don't want to talk to your parent(s) but it's wrong that you don't talk to them?

Ever since my grandmother passed six years ago, I've never got to forgive my father for not telling me she was dying. He insulted me many times and is up in age that in some cases I don't even think he knows it. When I talk to him on the phone, I can't even talk right.

I don't mean to dodge his calls; it's just I want to be genuine in my conversation and I don't want to get upset. He's also sick (liver disease). He's doing well, but then...

Have you guys ever gone through this?

What did you guys do? Concretely?

 

[Dawnofhope]

Have you ever felt you really don't want to talk to your parent(s) but it's wrong that you don't talk to them?

Ever since my grandmother passed six years ago, I've never got to forgive my father for not telling me she was dying. He insulted me many times and is up in age that in some cases I don't even think he knows it. When I talk to him on the phone, I can't even talk right.

I don't mean to dodge his calls; it's just I want to be genuine in my conversation and I don't want to get upset. He's also sick (liver disease). He's doing well, but then...

Have you guys ever gone through this?

What did you guys do? Concretely?

I forgave my parents and did the best I could to get along with them.

 

[MikeDwight]

Well I keep the suspects for dominant homosexual relations with my father in the basement, especially since I don't care about my father, or danny DeVito, the hulk, and Chris Park. He's been seen sort of in professional guarded roles in different locations.

 

[Unveiled Artist]

I forgave my parents and did the best I could to get along with them.

Thanks. I don't even know how to talk to him these days. I get irritated.

When I'm well rested I'll see if I can talk to him tomorrow.

 

[Dawnofhope]

Thanks. I don't even know how to talk to him these days. I get irritated.

When I'm well rested I'll see if I can talk to him tomorrow.

That's fantastic. It will be good for both of you.

 

[Twilight Hue]

It took me a very long time to realize that you can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends.

All families are not equal. Some are loving and some are not.

 

[Hockeycowboy]

Thanks. I don't even know how to talk to him these days. I get irritated.

When I'm well rested I'll see if I can talk to him tomorrow.

How did it turn out? Did you talk with him?

 

[greatdane]

Have you ever felt you really don't want to talk to your parent(s) but it's wrong that you don't talk to them?

Ever since my grandmother passed six years ago, I've never got to forgive my father for not telling me she was dying. He insulted me many times and is up in age that in some cases I don't even think he knows it. When I talk to him on the phone, I can't even talk right.

I don't mean to dodge his calls; it's just I want to be genuine in my conversation and I don't want to get upset. He's also sick (liver disease). He's doing well, but then...

Have you guys ever gone through this?

What did you guys do? Concretely?

If you diminish the importance of your dead grandmother to the point of insignificance it might serve as a way of improving your relationship with your father.

 

[Unveiled Artist]

How did it turn out? Did you talk with him?

Funny, he called the next day. He said why was I hiding underneath a rock. Even with my friend, if I'm heavily insulted for a long period of time, I can't cope.

I think he's going into alzheimers, if that's the right word. It's hard to resolve the issue because he forgets.

Thank you for asking