Thank you for your answer.
I really understand you because i was the one taking care of my parents when they got sick with cancer, my father was sick for 6 years before passing in 2000, and even my mom was alive at that time she struggle with her own roblems so much of the responsability fall on me, so at the time i was both trying to work and take care of them, then after my father passed away my mom got cancer in 2004, and because of her previous problems she also needed my full attention, yes i did work some hours a day to earn moneybut often she needed a lot of care that the health system here did not give her. (she passed away in 2013) and now with my fianceè she has some problems with her health too and again my turn to take care of her. But this time its different because right now i am stuck with a broken ankle. and waiting for an operation, so life goes on