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Do your beliefs teach special status, value or treatment for parents? Please share them with us, if they exist. I'll start with that of Islam.
Here are some verses from the Quran:
Quran 17 verses 23-24 (talks about both parents)
And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much such as] "pfft" and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word. And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, "My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small."
Comment: God is putting good treatment to parents right next to what He wants the most; worshiping Him. This shows how important parents are.
Quran 31 verses 14-15 (has special point for the mother)
And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me in worship that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in [this] world with appropriate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me [in repentance]. Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.
Comment: Here God says that even in case the parents try to push us to worship other than Him, which is the greatest sin to Him, we are still required to be kind to them.
Quran 46 verse 15 (first part. Again, specially about the mother)
And We have enjoined upon man, to his parents, good treatment. His mother carried him with hardship and gave birth to him with hardship.
Comment: Emphasis on the the hardship the mother has in the maternity stage is a way to make us appreciate the mother.
And now from the Islamic heritage and Hadeeth:
Prophet Muhammad PBUH (stands for peace be upon him) said: "who obey their parents, obey God, and who disobey their parents, disobey God."
A man once came to prophet Muhammad PBUH asking for Jihad opportunity. The Prophet asked him: "are your parents alive?". The man answered with yes. The Prophet then told him "then your jihad is with them".
In a similar setting, another man came to the Prophet inquiring about jihad and traveling seeking God. The Prophet asked him if his parents were alive and the main said that both of them are. He then asked him if he's seeking credit from God, and the man said yes, the Prophet told him to go back to them and give them good company.
A man once asked the Prophet "who's more deserving of my kindness and good company?" The Prophet said "your mother". The man asked "then who?", the Prophet said "then your mother". The man asked for the third time and got the same answer. Then the man asked for the fourth and last time and this time the answer was "your father".
Comments:
Prophet Muhammad is prioritizing parents over the opportunity of jihad and traveling to seek what pleases God of finding career, getting married, seeking knowledge, etc. This shows how important parents are.
That was what I managed to recall, and there are other examples. Please share what you have in your beliefs, if any.
Important note and a reminder:
This is not preaching. The Comparative Religion section is to compare religions in specific points and the thread is about the specific point of parents. Remember also that this section in not open for debates. If there is any, you can start your own thread about it in the right section. However, asking for clarifications or pointing out what could be a mistake are not debates and are allowed.
Do your beliefs teach special status, value or treatment for parents? Please share them with us, if they exist. I'll start with that of Islam.
Here are some verses from the Quran:
Quran 17 verses 23-24 (talks about both parents)
And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much such as] "pfft" and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word. And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, "My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small."
Comment: God is putting good treatment to parents right next to what He wants the most; worshiping Him. This shows how important parents are.
Quran 31 verses 14-15 (has special point for the mother)
And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me in worship that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in [this] world with appropriate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me [in repentance]. Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.
Comment: Here God says that even in case the parents try to push us to worship other than Him, which is the greatest sin to Him, we are still required to be kind to them.
Quran 46 verse 15 (first part. Again, specially about the mother)
And We have enjoined upon man, to his parents, good treatment. His mother carried him with hardship and gave birth to him with hardship.
Comment: Emphasis on the the hardship the mother has in the maternity stage is a way to make us appreciate the mother.
And now from the Islamic heritage and Hadeeth:
Prophet Muhammad PBUH (stands for peace be upon him) said: "who obey their parents, obey God, and who disobey their parents, disobey God."
A man once came to prophet Muhammad PBUH asking for Jihad opportunity. The Prophet asked him: "are your parents alive?". The man answered with yes. The Prophet then told him "then your jihad is with them".
In a similar setting, another man came to the Prophet inquiring about jihad and traveling seeking God. The Prophet asked him if his parents were alive and the main said that both of them are. He then asked him if he's seeking credit from God, and the man said yes, the Prophet told him to go back to them and give them good company.
A man once asked the Prophet "who's more deserving of my kindness and good company?" The Prophet said "your mother". The man asked "then who?", the Prophet said "then your mother". The man asked for the third time and got the same answer. Then the man asked for the fourth and last time and this time the answer was "your father".
Comments:
Prophet Muhammad is prioritizing parents over the opportunity of jihad and traveling to seek what pleases God of finding career, getting married, seeking knowledge, etc. This shows how important parents are.
That was what I managed to recall, and there are other examples. Please share what you have in your beliefs, if any.
Important note and a reminder:
This is not preaching. The Comparative Religion section is to compare religions in specific points and the thread is about the specific point of parents. Remember also that this section in not open for debates. If there is any, you can start your own thread about it in the right section. However, asking for clarifications or pointing out what could be a mistake are not debates and are allowed.