I think there are double standards going on.There's a difference between being nice and sexual harassment. I've heard stories of fears and concerns, but hearing stories is the only thing that resembles evidence I've been presented with. Overall, to me it seems hardly any different than conservative Christians screaming foul because when they are told they don't get to run the show anymore or get preferential treatment. They can say no more public prayer in school is an attack on their religion and god all they want, it's not.
When a male hits on a female, he is presumably a sex harasser.
When a female hits on a male, also touching him inappropriately, she is nothing. She gets away with it.