My husband and I have been debating the last few days...
Lately, when he's gotten drunk, he's referred to other people(of his own age group) as 'son'.
"Look at that, son!" "Whatcha think of that, son!" "There ya go, son" (for example)
I find it incredibly disrespectful. He says its fine, and normal in the south. (I am not sure I believe this.)
What do you think? How would you feel being called "son" by a person of your own age group? What about someone older/younger? (And this applies to women, too, as I and my female friend am getting called "son", too in these instances.) I'm curious if perhaps there is a nuance here, and I'm just being overly sensitive.
Yes, its probably alcohol fueled, but I have never excused rude behavior just because one is drunk.
Lately, when he's gotten drunk, he's referred to other people(of his own age group) as 'son'.
"Look at that, son!" "Whatcha think of that, son!" "There ya go, son" (for example)
I find it incredibly disrespectful. He says its fine, and normal in the south. (I am not sure I believe this.)
What do you think? How would you feel being called "son" by a person of your own age group? What about someone older/younger? (And this applies to women, too, as I and my female friend am getting called "son", too in these instances.) I'm curious if perhaps there is a nuance here, and I'm just being overly sensitive.
Yes, its probably alcohol fueled, but I have never excused rude behavior just because one is drunk.