PureX
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So, Billlie Eilish was on the Howard Stern Show last Tuesday and made some comments about pornography that are blowing up the internet. Unfortunately I cannot post the conversation in her own words because Howard Stern removed the video clip of it from YouTube, and from his own web page. Interestingly, he did not remove the 4 other video excerpts from that 2 hour interview; only the one about pornography. I also could not find an exact written excerpt from the interview, so I will have to post a truncated rewrite.
Also, I will add, that later in this long interview the subject of sexual abuse came up, and Billie made it clear that she, herself, had experienced what she defined as "statutory rape", and other very inappropriate sexual behavior on the part of men and boys, as a young teenage girl. She did not name names or give details. She did, however, talk about why she has not pressed legal charges. (Her own choice.)
We have had a number of threads on here about prostitution and pornography, and I know that most of you think it's all very well and good so long is it's "consenting". And I have received a lot of criticism in the past because I am not in favor of prostitution or pornography being legal (monetized).
I believe Billie's experiences with porn, and the damage it did to her are VERY commonplace (and so does she). She also mentions an alarming hyper-sexualization by young kids on TicToc who are apparently mimicking what they are seeing on porn sites to make themselves look "cool" and "grown up".
I have stated before and I will state again that pornography IS NOT ABOUT SEX. It's about MONEY. And more specifically, its about exploiting human sexuality, and all the confusion and selfishness that goes along with that, for monetary profit. The people producing porn and putting it on line do not care that children will see it and be significantly harmed by it. They do not care that you or I might be significantly harmed by it. All they want is MONEY. And they'll produce whatever sexually exploitive material they think will get them that money.
“As a woman, I think porn is a disgrace. I used to watch a lot of porn, to be honest. I started watching porn when I was like 11,” she said, telling Howard it helped her feel like “one of the guys.” “I think it really destroyed my brain and I feel incredibly devastated that I was exposed to so much porn.”
She frequently watched violent pornography, which she believes contributed to her suffering from sleep paralysis and night terrors. The “abusive” porn also led to problems in the bedroom once she was older and had become sexually active herself. “The first few times I, you know, had sex, I was not saying no to things that were not good. It was because I thought that’s what I was supposed to be attracted to,” Billie said.
“I’m so angry that porn is so loved, and I’m so angry at myself for thinking that it was okay,” she continued. “The way that vaginas look in porn is ****ing crazy. No vaginas look like that. Women’s bodies don’t look like that. We don’t come like that.”
I listened to the full interview, and so can say that a few key points have been left out, here. One is that Billie said she was a virgin when she began watching porn, and that she thought watching porn was how young people learned how to have sex. So that later, when she decided to become sexually active, she engaged in sexual behavior that was not appropriate, and not healthy, because it's what she thought she was supposed to do. She frequently watched violent pornography, which she believes contributed to her suffering from sleep paralysis and night terrors. The “abusive” porn also led to problems in the bedroom once she was older and had become sexually active herself. “The first few times I, you know, had sex, I was not saying no to things that were not good. It was because I thought that’s what I was supposed to be attracted to,” Billie said.
“I’m so angry that porn is so loved, and I’m so angry at myself for thinking that it was okay,” she continued. “The way that vaginas look in porn is ****ing crazy. No vaginas look like that. Women’s bodies don’t look like that. We don’t come like that.”
Also, I will add, that later in this long interview the subject of sexual abuse came up, and Billie made it clear that she, herself, had experienced what she defined as "statutory rape", and other very inappropriate sexual behavior on the part of men and boys, as a young teenage girl. She did not name names or give details. She did, however, talk about why she has not pressed legal charges. (Her own choice.)
We have had a number of threads on here about prostitution and pornography, and I know that most of you think it's all very well and good so long is it's "consenting". And I have received a lot of criticism in the past because I am not in favor of prostitution or pornography being legal (monetized).
I believe Billie's experiences with porn, and the damage it did to her are VERY commonplace (and so does she). She also mentions an alarming hyper-sexualization by young kids on TicToc who are apparently mimicking what they are seeing on porn sites to make themselves look "cool" and "grown up".
I have stated before and I will state again that pornography IS NOT ABOUT SEX. It's about MONEY. And more specifically, its about exploiting human sexuality, and all the confusion and selfishness that goes along with that, for monetary profit. The people producing porn and putting it on line do not care that children will see it and be significantly harmed by it. They do not care that you or I might be significantly harmed by it. All they want is MONEY. And they'll produce whatever sexually exploitive material they think will get them that money.
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