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Stay single.Hi, I'm a single woman and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
Favourite places to find compatible partners seems to be the workplace and shared social activities e.g. hobbies, sports and so on. My own record for where I found girlfriends, and eventually my wife, is as follows:-Hi, I'm a single woman and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
Favourite places to find compatible partners seems to be the workplace and shared social activities e.g. hobbies, sports and so on. My own record for where I found girlfriends, and eventually my wife, is as follows:-
University introduction
Workplace
Geology evening class (hobby)
Workplace
Workplace
Party
Sailing club
Workplace
Rowing club
And now, being an elderly widower, I have found a sort of platonic, female, kindred spirit and walking companion through singing. I'm not really in the market for anything more than that, these days.
I may not be typical of course. I'm someone who has always hated the frantic dating scene: discos, clubs, vacuous airhead parties and so forth.
Hi, I'm a single woman and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
Favourite places to find compatible partners seems to be the workplace and shared social activities
Avoid them. The worst are on forums.Hi, I'm a single woman and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
That can be overdone. It is obviously risky to go out with someone with whom you have, or might have, any kind of professional relationship. I always made a point of not going out with anyone who worked in the same department as myself. In one case she was an admin person in my department, so I waited until I moved to another location - and then immediately asked her out. Another time I met a refinery technologist working on the same refinery but in a quite different department, with no connection to mine. And then there was a girl I met on a training course, who was from another part of the business.I don't know what it is like in the uk, but in america, there has always been a strong cultural and sometimes regulatory aversion to looking for that in a workplace.
It's quite ridiculous - and cruel - for a business to insist that no two people working for the organisation can ever form a relationship.
Well exactly.Is that legally enforcable in the UK? Or even practicable?
I worked in an office of about 2-300 people and once totted up how many were in relationships that were "in house." It was easily more than 50% (including me!)
Hi, I'm a single woman and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
It is we men who need advice, so unfortunately my advice won't do a lot for you but...Hi, I'm a single woman and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
I know a lot of people won't agree with me but if I was looking for a husband I would use a dating service such as eharmony and try to find someone who is compatible. The chances of finding someone compatible in a social setting is not that likely and a bar is not a good place to meet a man.Hi, I'm a single woman and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
What kind of person are you looking for, or what character traits and values are important to you? I would suggest determining the ones that are most important to you that you feel you wouldn’t want to compromise on, while being more flexible and not as picky on ones of lesser priority. Ultimately, bring your request and desire to God and wait, while continuing to serve Him, by interacting, serving, helping and loving others in church and any situations you are involved in.Hi, I'm a single woman and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
I know a lot of people won't agree with me but if I was looking for a husband I would use a dating service such as eharmony and try to find someone who is compatible. The chances of finding someone compatible in a social setting is not that likely and a bar is not a good place to meet a man.
I know a lot of people won't agree with me but if I was looking for a husband I would use a dating service such as eharmony and try to find someone who is compatible. The chances of finding someone compatible in a social setting is not that likely and a bar is not a good place to meet a man.
I agree, to an extent. What I think is definitely the case is that it helps to be in an environment in which you can see people in their broader interactions with others and can size them up a bit, before declaring an interest. As a man, there's always the risk of being too much influenced by looks, when really one needs to let the other two dimensions, intelligence and personality, to come into focus.Make friends with men and don't try to rush or force a romance or relationship. Eventually, you may well develop a romantic bond with one of them. Don't bottle up your feelings if you do.
I believe many of the best romances start out as good friendships. At least that's what I've seen within my social circle. It's kind of a win-win situation, too: if you're looking for a romance and it happens to develop, great. If it doesn't form, you may still have a good friend.
I always think of eharmony because after my brother's wife of 27 years died of cancer he was adamant about getting married again, but he did not even know how to use a computer back then which was about 20 years ago, so he put an ad in the newspaper. Well, he had some responses but nothing panned out.I recommended e-harmony to my ex wife. That was six years ago, and she remarried last month. Which caused me mixed feelings, but I’m happy for her.