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Veteran Member: I Share (not Debate) my POV
I even have doctor's orders to not loan money , for it is damaging my mental health. I'm serious... I'll stop unless someone pays me back
You should follow doctors orders IMHO. And if someone asks then tell them "doctors orders I am not allowed to loan". That is easy, is it not?
Even if they pay you back, you should not do it until the doctor reverses the order. Because you're never sure if they pay back, so it will still damage mental health
First cure yourself then help others; this advise gave my Mater, in my first interview, to a man who wanted to help others. Perfectly applicable to you. Mental health first !!!