TruthSeeker1
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Recently there has been a lot of discussion among the Canadian media in particular about sexual assaults that have come to light at an all boys private school in Toronto. After this incident, some professional hockey players have also disclosed their own experiences with hazing. This got me thinking about sexual violence, and not just what we typically hear about, that of violence by men against women, but also violence by men against men. And that got me thinking about masculinity, and how it's defined, and how much do these definitions contribute to what's considered acceptable, and what isn't. The article that got me thinking was this one, for anyone interested I loved being class president at St. Mike’s. Here’s what it is getting wrong | The Star
The questions that I'm interested in are, how much do notions about what it is to be masculine, contribute to sexual violence, or validate it? How much are norms of masculinity changing? Are they really, even though there is a lot of talk about how it's more acceptable for men to be compassionate, and express emotion, instead of being tough and reserved? Is chauvinism, the attitude that men are superior to women, still relatively entrenched among men? Is sexual violence (hazing, outright sexual abuse) by men against men more acceptable to men then violence by men against women? If so, why is this?
Another aspect that interests me is the intersectionality with religion, and the ways in which religious beliefs have molded the notion of masculinity, and encouraged chauvinism. The Christian Bible is an excellent example of male chauvinism, with the violence perpetuated towards women in the OT, the fact that no women are given any voice in the Bible, and the teachings of Paul in particular in the NT, regarding the role of women. Christianity has definitely had a significant impact in western nations in regards to gender norms and roles and what it is to be masculine and feminine. Is it fair to conclude that private religious institutions are necessarily behind the times (since they cling to traditional norms based on religious texts, for example) and are still encouraging norms about masculinity which are ultimately harmful not only to women but to other men as well?
How much do those who leave religion, particularly men, reflect on the way that religion has impacted and likely continues to impact their norms of what it is to be a man, and masculinity? Some men clearly continue with very chauvinistic patterns, while others become more aware of how they have been shaped by their environment and beliefs, and actively try to change them.
I would love to hear about your thoughts or experiences on these issues/questions.
The questions that I'm interested in are, how much do notions about what it is to be masculine, contribute to sexual violence, or validate it? How much are norms of masculinity changing? Are they really, even though there is a lot of talk about how it's more acceptable for men to be compassionate, and express emotion, instead of being tough and reserved? Is chauvinism, the attitude that men are superior to women, still relatively entrenched among men? Is sexual violence (hazing, outright sexual abuse) by men against men more acceptable to men then violence by men against women? If so, why is this?
Another aspect that interests me is the intersectionality with religion, and the ways in which religious beliefs have molded the notion of masculinity, and encouraged chauvinism. The Christian Bible is an excellent example of male chauvinism, with the violence perpetuated towards women in the OT, the fact that no women are given any voice in the Bible, and the teachings of Paul in particular in the NT, regarding the role of women. Christianity has definitely had a significant impact in western nations in regards to gender norms and roles and what it is to be masculine and feminine. Is it fair to conclude that private religious institutions are necessarily behind the times (since they cling to traditional norms based on religious texts, for example) and are still encouraging norms about masculinity which are ultimately harmful not only to women but to other men as well?
How much do those who leave religion, particularly men, reflect on the way that religion has impacted and likely continues to impact their norms of what it is to be a man, and masculinity? Some men clearly continue with very chauvinistic patterns, while others become more aware of how they have been shaped by their environment and beliefs, and actively try to change them.
I would love to hear about your thoughts or experiences on these issues/questions.