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Sex magic

Discussion in 'Sexuality' started by Snow White, Jul 29, 2021.

  1. Snow White

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    Some or a few people of the Left Hand Path, as well as witches, sometimes use sex as a magic ritual. The idea is that sex can heighten one's ability to use magic, or be in touch with magic.

    When I put myself out there again on dating sites, I'll probably talk to a few such people (witches and Left Hand Path), by choice. I'm trying to debate whether to bring such a subject up with them should it turn out we're getting along very, very well and talking deeply about the spiritual side and sexuality. However, I have my concerns that doing so will just creep these people out due to it being such a niche subject, possibly even among witches and people into Left Hand Path. Sometimes when you tell someone something on a dating site they consider too weird, they'll stop talking to you without explanation. I don't message them after that, respecting their boundaries. But I'd rather ask the etiquette on such a matter, rather than find out the hard way and ruin my chances with a woman that I was chatting with fine, based on bringing up some niche thing they might not be into, and possibly creeping them out in the process. Thoughts?
     
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    well... How dead set are you on practicing sex magic with your potential partner? If you aren't too dead set on it, you might just have to give it up. If it's something you want to have in your life, though, I would absolutely let them know that you want that. If it's something that includes them, they need to be OK with it.

    That said, it will definitely reduce the amount of people you can date, and it will turn off a lot of folks.

    I'm not sure if that's something you need to disclose on the first date, though. I guess I would try and find out if they had pagan leanings, or how their spirituality leaned. If they seemed open to witchcraft or something similar, they might be ok with that. Also, if someone had a lot of kinks, they might be down for something like that too. :D
     
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    Just out of curiosity, what the hell is sex magic?

    And what magic can you do, since you "know" that it will heighten ones ability to do it? :)
     
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    Careful, curiosity killed the cat :p
     
  5. Snow White

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    Indeed, haha. I'm scrambling to find a description which isn't too explicit to post and sticks to the description itself. :p
     
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    Good luck! :D
     
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    Leave out the sex part :D

    What magic are you talking about? Because im thinking Lords of the rings here? :) or are we talking horoscope and palm reading type of "magic" where it sort fits everyone, if its described vague enough?
     
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    Deeply connecting with one's deity in a new, heightened way, possibly working spiritual connection in different ways.
     
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    So no magic? its a feeling of connection? is it different from meditation or yoga where you also can get some sense of calmness etc.?
     
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    While I can't speak for everyone, my Left Hand Path practices including meditation don't always make me feel more calm, at least how I do them - they make me feel more passionate and carnal.

    But yes.
     
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    ok, so you just call it magic? But you don't really mean magic, like changing things against their will or influencing the future or whatever one would assign to the word magic? :)
     
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    That's correct, with the exception that if I had a partner who's a witch, they may still have their own ideas and wish to cast spells during it (just thinking of every possibility), which I'm okay with.
     
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