Yes, how dare people have the number of children they want! My neighbor had 12 and they took up 3 (count 'em, 3) parking spots but that meant that I had to move my car! Jerks.
Three cheers for China and their policy of limiting how many children can be had. I mean, I guess we could just find the people in that group who have so many kids, round them up and kill them. Oh wait...they did that which is why the people feel the need to have children, to repopulate the group.
There can be a balance where a population has enough children to maintain their numbers but not so many as to cause the birth rate to have negative effects on living conditions without any overly encroaching laws like those of China.
As I mentioned in my previous post, I think there are too many factors deciding whether a high birth rate is problematic or not--down to the level of individual families--to entirely dismiss concerns about high birth rates or broadly generalize and label anyone who has a lot of children as "irresponsible," "selfish," etc.