Amanaki , I know this sounds debative but you wanted our opinion. Wouldn't this be a strike contradiction between agreeing with god's mode of justice and having empathy for people?
You can have much empathy for people on earth, but if you don't have empathy for their eternal well-being (thereby disagreeing with god), then it wouldn't be empathy. Empathy is more you put yourself in the shoes of others and understand what they believe insofar you won't judge them (and agree to anyone who does-god included) and wish them a life in their religion or path as what's appropriate to them.
Tolerance may not be a better word. I'd say respect not empathy. You can respect someone eve though you agree with their choice for them to choose hell. But when said to others (as it was said to me once), you may not get respect in return. Empathy doesn't teach that.
Yes. I know this is debative but when I read your posts to others for example
@Nimos (#24), from an outsider it presents to conclusions from A: you choose to believe (agree with god) that people will be tormented and are okay with it or B: Only see the good sides but ignore or are blind to the bad sides.
That, and I agree with Nimos. I know god and muslim gives you peace, but I wonder also, at what expense is that peace that you agree to god that people choose to punish themselves.
I'm sorry I can't say only positive things and you will agree and ignore or divert from the negative things I say. But all in all, I would hope anyone of any religion will see the "other side" of their religion and try not to justify it.