Spiderman
Veteran Member
Obviously a person who raped someone is choosing to do so.
Yet there are very few female rapists, or female Ted Bundys out there.
So, if Bundy had been born with a Vagina, I doubt he would have raped and murdered anyone, because statistics show that having a Vagina (instead of a penis), greatly decreases the likelihood of raping or murdering people (especially for the sexual gratification being the motive behind it).
So, with that in mind, how we exercise our free will, especially regarding rape, (and temptations to do so) depends largely on what is out of our control, our genitals, as well as the gender on your birth certificate!
So, if being born male greatly GREATLY increases your likelihood of being a rapist by Far, can we actually blame it on "free will"??
Also, for me, despite having sadistic fantasies of violently ravaging, owning, and controlling girls when I was a child, I never actually wanted to act them out. It was largely caused by being exposed to porn at age 8, because prior to that, it was NOT an issue.
But I have been in a youth prison for other offenses, and I had a cell-mate who raped and drowned a girl in the hungry horse river in Montana.
The kid had evil eyes, weird posture, weird sinister voice, and showed no signs of having a moral compass!
For many other criminals observed with those tendencies, I get the impression there is NOTHING they can do to help themselves!
They are severely troubled and disturbed, with chronic temptations to violate people sexually. Can we actually say, they are to blame for having those chronic urges??
As I said, were they born female, they probably wouldn't have them. (Actually, I am shocked with how many females I have heard say they have fantasies of being handcuffed, bound, gagged, and violently manhandled, strangled, raped, and beaten! . I have never known a man share such fantasies. Which is not healthy I'm assuming, but harmless, not the norm, and totally the opposite of what I'm talking about).
For me, I needed fantasies of aggression, controlling, dominating, and exercising ownership to get excited or off, destroy something beautiful I guess, watch a fire get out of control, but never actually wanted to have it manifest outside of fantasy.
And I don't even look at porn anymore, and haven't yanked one out in over three weeks Woot! WOOT! To keep purity of soul! (Sometimes if the tension builds though, the lesser of two evils is to yank one out if you are celibate!)
Obviously, for some individuals, they feel like they have to act such fantasies out in order to experience Heaven on earth , in the sense that it is their greatest joy, delight, and satisfaction!
For other men, it isn't even a temptation. People that do those acts are sick, warped, tortured individuals!
Are men with these inclinations, really at fault for being drawn (tempted, desires to ravage) to commit those acts??
EDIT:
Acting these desires out is the absolute most cowardly, terrible thing a man can do, but is he at fault for wanting to do so in the first place??
Yet there are very few female rapists, or female Ted Bundys out there.
So, if Bundy had been born with a Vagina, I doubt he would have raped and murdered anyone, because statistics show that having a Vagina (instead of a penis), greatly decreases the likelihood of raping or murdering people (especially for the sexual gratification being the motive behind it).
So, with that in mind, how we exercise our free will, especially regarding rape, (and temptations to do so) depends largely on what is out of our control, our genitals, as well as the gender on your birth certificate!
So, if being born male greatly GREATLY increases your likelihood of being a rapist by Far, can we actually blame it on "free will"??
Also, for me, despite having sadistic fantasies of violently ravaging, owning, and controlling girls when I was a child, I never actually wanted to act them out. It was largely caused by being exposed to porn at age 8, because prior to that, it was NOT an issue.
But I have been in a youth prison for other offenses, and I had a cell-mate who raped and drowned a girl in the hungry horse river in Montana.
The kid had evil eyes, weird posture, weird sinister voice, and showed no signs of having a moral compass!
For many other criminals observed with those tendencies, I get the impression there is NOTHING they can do to help themselves!
They are severely troubled and disturbed, with chronic temptations to violate people sexually. Can we actually say, they are to blame for having those chronic urges??
As I said, were they born female, they probably wouldn't have them. (Actually, I am shocked with how many females I have heard say they have fantasies of being handcuffed, bound, gagged, and violently manhandled, strangled, raped, and beaten! . I have never known a man share such fantasies. Which is not healthy I'm assuming, but harmless, not the norm, and totally the opposite of what I'm talking about).
For me, I needed fantasies of aggression, controlling, dominating, and exercising ownership to get excited or off, destroy something beautiful I guess, watch a fire get out of control, but never actually wanted to have it manifest outside of fantasy.
And I don't even look at porn anymore, and haven't yanked one out in over three weeks Woot! WOOT! To keep purity of soul! (Sometimes if the tension builds though, the lesser of two evils is to yank one out if you are celibate!)
Obviously, for some individuals, they feel like they have to act such fantasies out in order to experience Heaven on earth , in the sense that it is their greatest joy, delight, and satisfaction!
For other men, it isn't even a temptation. People that do those acts are sick, warped, tortured individuals!
Are men with these inclinations, really at fault for being drawn (tempted, desires to ravage) to commit those acts??
EDIT:
Acting these desires out is the absolute most cowardly, terrible thing a man can do, but is he at fault for wanting to do so in the first place??
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