Thanda
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Definitely not by me. You're equating existence with necessity. What's your evidence that such arrangements cannot change?
I do not need to provide such evidence because I did not ever claim such a thing. But to answer your question on necessity, I'm sure those women would have taken the alternative if it was available don't you think?
And declaring it doesn't make it a fact
But showing you evidence does.
You are strawmanning my position. Again, I am a man. I have an extremely self-interested stake in hardships faced by men. I'm quite interested in alleviating hardships men face. I've now explained to you repeatedly that power dynamics play out on multiple levels. Patriarchy doesn't mean every man has a carefree life and faces no hardship.
Being a man yourself holds no weight in this argument. You are not every man. And I'm quite confident you've never been a miner. Furthermore
You have yet to show that miner life is easier than his wife's life. You have yet to show that he is in a position of advantage over her. Your only evidence is that, since you seem to prize money above health, life and family, he has more money than her.
Your cited study does not demonstrate your claim. I'm aware there's a correlation between unemployment and crime. What we were discussing was the notion that in poor societies we should defer all job opportunities to men before women, because if we don't the unemployed men will be "menaces to society." Not only is a silly exaggerration, it's a myopic and unfair solution to the problem. Uneducated and unemployed women also harm society and keep it from progressing. Societies thrive, as we see all around us right now, when men and women are both given economic opportunity
You clearly did not read the bold section I highlighted in the study properly. It isn't just a correlation that is proved. A causal relationship was proved between youth unemployment and crime (we're both satisfied I'm sure that we don't need to say who the main perpetrators of that crime is).
Of course its not enough to just deny woman any opportunities and leave it at that. There has to be an effort to grow the economy so everyone can be involved. In the US there is 3% unemployment. In SA it's 30%. And youth unemployment is at close to 60%. Predictably South Africa is one of the crime capitals of the world. Young men are recruited into criminal gangs and men and women alike live in fear.
The consequences of large scale Male unemployment are disasters of epic proportions. And women are no safer there even if they manage to get more of the jobs than their male counterparts.
Again I repeat, the reason patriarchal societies were the ones that survived for so long is because they were the most successful under the circumstances. It remains to be seen whether the changes in circumstances will be enough to overthrow that it
Your equivocation continues. My employer does not own me. My boss doesn't have the prerogative to f*ck me and obligate ne to have his children. I can go find another job whenever I want for whatever reason, and it won't ruin my life if I do so, or even if I have many jobs throughout my life. You are rationalizing painfully coercive situations, and it's more than a little disturbing.
Your problem is assuming that getting and keeping a job is as easy everywhere as it is in the US. You have no idea the abuses that people endure to keep their jobs in low employment environments. In fact you might be surprised to learn that it can get so bad that employers can literally f*ck women and force them to have their children.
Oppressed to a degree, but not remotely the same. The differences I just outlined are obvious.
You've outlined no differences other than showing that you value money over all else.
I will continue to point out that societal pressures in freer societies are less than more oppressive ones, because it's completely (and definitionally) obvious.
And I will continue to point out that prosperous societies will always offer more options and opportunities than less prosperous ones. Which is completely obvious