Thanda
Well-Known Member
I'm a South African and have just been watching a show "sister wives". One of the wives mentions that growing up they were always told to be weary of the outside world - the outside world being those outside of their polygamous communities.
She goes on to say that they were told to fear the outsiders becuase they might report their father for polygamy and he would be jailed and their family would be torn apart. In fact she tells that her grandfather had had exactly that happen to him and their family had been torn apart and his children hadn't been able to see each other for years.
So my question is, why does the left in the US seem so concerned about foreign families being torn apart for (illegally) trying to come to the US but there seems to not be the same level of concern about your own countrymen whose families are similarly torn apart. Whose only crime is being a family.
To go further, those on the left have also fought for the rights of gays and lesbians to form families again, without a care for those of their countrymen who have long been denied the right to form and their own families in polygamous communities.
Full disclosure, my father had two wives. My grandfather had eight wives. We actually had a family reunion recently with my half brothers and sisters at my grandfather's place where two of my grandmothers still live together. I would hate to think what would have happened to our family had we been subject to these irrational American limits on family.
She goes on to say that they were told to fear the outsiders becuase they might report their father for polygamy and he would be jailed and their family would be torn apart. In fact she tells that her grandfather had had exactly that happen to him and their family had been torn apart and his children hadn't been able to see each other for years.
So my question is, why does the left in the US seem so concerned about foreign families being torn apart for (illegally) trying to come to the US but there seems to not be the same level of concern about your own countrymen whose families are similarly torn apart. Whose only crime is being a family.
To go further, those on the left have also fought for the rights of gays and lesbians to form families again, without a care for those of their countrymen who have long been denied the right to form and their own families in polygamous communities.
Full disclosure, my father had two wives. My grandfather had eight wives. We actually had a family reunion recently with my half brothers and sisters at my grandfather's place where two of my grandmothers still live together. I would hate to think what would have happened to our family had we been subject to these irrational American limits on family.