FeathersinHair said:
Then I think you'll see why we get nervous when a person is doing that, on either side.
Maize is taking the wise road in leaving this thread, and I'm afraid I'll have to go with her. I'll say it again, I am very sad. You had started moving on from this topic and letting others get to know your other, beautiful, sides and I wish I knew why we are no longer getting to see those other facets of you.
Please seek the guidance of your local clergy. No matter how Pro-Life they are, I'm hopeful that they will see how detrimental to the spirit it is for one to focus for two years on something you view as murder, and will be able to offer up some suggestions.
I hope that you will be healed and blessed.
Maize is offended that I compared people who abort to slave owners and Nazis, but the comparison still stands. If she truly feels I am skewing the facts, then I wish she would have tried to refute it and set the facts straight, if it were possible. If she feels the need to leave the thread, then let her do what she feels like.
Well, I am very sad too. I had hoped someone would be able to reason with me on this, but I have been given no reasoning, no logic, nothing but opinions and emotion from the other side. This is why I will never become pro-choice again. Once you get past the dogma, there is simply nothing there.
And yes, I can totally understand how somebody could be pro-choice when it comes to life-threatening situations, but to me, the word choice falls short. That is a very difficult decision to make, and I believe every attempt to save both mother and baby should always be made before she just gives up.
In the case of rape, I believe there are kinder ways to treat a woman. If someone could show me one shred of evidence that abortion actually
helps a woman who has been raped, in the long run, I would be open to hearing it and debating with that person about it. I have never seen any such evidence in my reading or my personal life. I have one very good friend who aborted because of rape, but her reasons went deeper than that and involved racism as well. At any rate she deeply regrets that decision now, and wishes she could take it back. Abortion is forever. I also know another woman who became pregnant from rape, and decided to keep the baby, she was pro-life and to her it was not even a question, murder was murder. Her baby and her are doing just fine.
Well, I talk to my pastor about it all the time. He's very much pro-life as well. He however has a way of saying things to people in a very non-offensive way, that makes them really consider what they think on a deeply personal level. I don't always have that gift, but I try my best. I wish you guys could talk to him. I don't think I'm so obsessed as you all seem to think. This is sort of a cause I've taken up right now, but I have many other things I'm doing as well. I haven't been on here talking about abortion for months, and now I come back for what 3 days, I've posted on a few threads about it, and now suddenly I have a reputation. I have very strong evidence to support my opinion, and a very deeply held conviction based upon that. That is all I can say. I am here to test the other side to see if there is any substance to it at all, I've found little.