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Yeah, we hear that here too. I think it's fair to suggest that cities have problems unique to cities, and that this has always been the case, but our increased population density means these problems are more commonly experienced.
The flip side is that rural areas also have unique problems. Drug culture and suicides amongst young men would be examples.
Then that may add to the perception that there is a moral decline.
I get what you mean, and there is some truth there, but I think it's a long bow, and a lot to put on 'pop culture'.
Still, if I am looking for strong, independent female role models for my girls, I have more chance today. If I hope that they see people of all colours as having equal value, then I have more chance today. If I want them to avoid swearing, or gay kissing, yesteryear was clearly better.
Obviously I'm over-simplifying here, and some aspects of pop culture horrify me, including much of 'reality' tv. But that is precisely because it is dressing up things which are not real as if they are, and encouraging skewed perspectives of reality because of it.
I'll take the swings and roundabouts of actual reality over polite papering over, or soundbite driven sensationalism.
I think we're seeing different perceptions, though, not just in terms of idealizing the past, but by the same token, the skewed demonizations of it as well. Both of my grandmothers (and many in their generation) would have been good role models, as they were strong and independent. And not everyone necessarily went along with the racial ideals of the old Confederacy, which only existed a mere four years. But to hear some people talk, they think it was the center of American life through the 18th, 19th, and much of the 20th centuries. These kinds of skewed perceptions also create the wrong impression when comparing then and now.
A lot of people today react against "political correctness" as being another attempt at creating false perceptions of reality. But many might take a more candid view of things and say that things really haven't changed as much as people think. A lot of people of color are still oppressed, languishing in the ghettos, without any real hope. And the idea of a "strong independent female" might also be questioned, at least in the sense of how it might be compared with women of past eras, such as my grandmothers who were hard-working, tough, and strong-willed. But they were neither "princesses" nor female Rambos. (In fact, if they were still alive, they'd be arguing very loudly that society is in a profound state of moral decline today. They were both very outspoken about their views of morality, far more so than my grandfathers, who were more inclined to go with the flow.)
That is pure perception. There has never been a time when everything was so 'hunky-dory' that people wouldn't sue each other. Or...speaking of self-reliant...take matters into their own hands.
Well, as far as taking matters into their own hands, at least in early America, there were isolated portions where the "law" was too far away to be able to do anything.
It's a fair conclusion. However, I don't see individualism or self-reliance as moral issues at all.
I think more that these are vehicles to allow individuals to make decisions around morality rather than collective decisions. Interestingly that is the very opposite of what commonly happened in small communities back in the 50s. It wasn't the government enforcing morality, but the town itself, as I think you're aware. I tend to find many things tied to 'morality' are actually tied to conformance and 'fitting in'.
Yeah, I think that's the point. It's a matter of conflicting value systems and ideas of morality which have changed over time. And some people do see individualism or self-reliance as moral issues, at least in the sense that they see political freedom as a moral consideration. Some people believe it's immoral to eschew individualism in favor of collectivism, since they see it as infringing on people's personal freedom. And self-reliance is the idea that people should pull themselves up by their own bootstraps and not rely on government handouts. I used to know a Southern Baptist preacher who loudly decried the idea of a "womb to tomb" welfare state, suggesting that it was immoral for a government to take care of its own people.