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Oral Sex

Discussion in 'Religious Debates' started by Messianic Israelite, Aug 10, 2020.

  1. Messianic Israelite

    Messianic Israelite Active Member

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    Here is a paradox that should trouble the parent of any teenagers. Back in 2000 there was a study done that showed that whilst the number of teens that say they are sexually abstinent is on the rise, so is the number that have had oral sex. Many teens don’t believe oral sex counts as sex and this problem has been growing below the radar of many sex educators and clueless parents. I am going to refer to some studies done in 2000 as this is what I have access to. The study showed that since 1988, the number of boys aged between 15 – 19 who have received oral sex from a female had risen from 13% to 49.5% in the U.S. That means that even back in the year 2000, half of the country had already engaged in oral sex.

    It is a mystery to me that adults have no problems giving good advice about the dangers of drugs and alcohol, but for some reason struggle to give advice to the rising generation about sex. In particular, advocates of so called comprehensive sexual education are giving mixed messages with deadly results. Whilst they theoretically advocate abstinence, they also push for widespread distribution of contraceptive devices under the assumption that kids will be sexually active and therefore need protection.

    I have never engaged in and never will engage in oral sex. It is perverted sex. I know the right way and wrong way to have sex from the Law and the Word from passages such as Romans 1. And I shouldn’t have to say anything, but I feel here on RF we’re missing some core issues that need to be addressed in today’s society. If you have engaged in this or thinking about doing so you need to ask yourself why. I can’t answer that for you. Perhaps you are watching something you have no business watching, perhaps you’re involved in pornography or perhaps it’s people that you are listening to that are leading you on. Whatever the case, Yahshua’s message is the same: repent, for the Kingdom of heaven is at hand.

    It’s disgusting. And for people who are seeking a holy way of life (Leviticus 19:2), this sort of sex shouldn’t even be named among those who call themselves believers. In the Kingdom of Yahweh that is coming, all such acts will be outlawed. Relationships will flourish and the husband and the wife will have true love for one another and respect each other.

    I know many people have no problem with pride marches and demonstrations. Homosexuals will try to tell you that any form of sex is good sex. No it isn’t. Satan has his system and oral sex is part of his domain, not Yahweh’s domain. I still regard myself as a young person, but I have to say, the older that I get the more I see that Yahweh’s Laws are for our psychological wellbeing. They stop us from making major mistakes in life if we obey all of them. Not in the sense that following the Word doesn’t have problems - it does. Persecution is one of them. But we have the strength that comes from prayer and encouraging words from the Word to help us deal with those things. Troubling psychological fallout from giving oral sex can make girls feel exploited and they do it to be popular or make boys happy. Girls may become bitter against boys or choose not to date them and some may choose to date those of the same gender instead.

    I can’t change the world but my hope and prayer is that Yahweh’s Kingdom would come soon so that people would learn what true love really means and enjoy the happiness and peace that comes from keeping the Law.
     
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  2. Lyndon

    Lyndon "Peace is the answer" quote: GOD, 2014
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    I'm sure their will be lots of LGBT people in heaven, not so much super judgmental people though IMHO
     
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  3. Amanaki

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    True love is not about sex or physical attraction at all :) true love is compassion toward all living beings :)
     
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    When you get to my age, oral sex becomes dominant, we talk about it all the time.
     
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    This is called Clinton's Syndrome.
     
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    Boys give girls oral sex as well though. Girls do it to other girls. I know a woman who says it's her favourite thing to do with her husband. I don't see an issue here.
     
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  7. Messianic Israelite

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    Hi Lyndon. Good morning. Homosexual relations are tō'ē'bā according to the Bible and if you’re defending homosexuality, you’re defending everything that is wrong about sex, I hope you understand that. Who shall inherit the Kingdom of Yahweh. 1 Corinthians 6:9 clearly says: "Or know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of Yahweh? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with men...shall inherit the kingdom of Yahweh."
     
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    I agree. Clinton was a major proponent for this sort of attitude and denied publicly that oral sex counted as sex.
     
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    I believe in some countries, oral sex is counted as penetration, hence one can be convicted of rape for such (if any underage participants). :oops:
     
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  10. Lyndon

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    thats rubbish, love is what matters, not who you have sex with
     
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    Sucks to be you :D
     
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    The idea that the same being upon whom all of existence depends is also upset that we're doing sex different from the instruction manual is daft beyond pardody.
     
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    Hi Rival. Good morning. I'm well understanding of that. Some people don't see what's wrong with it but that wasn't the case less than a century ago. Jeremiah 6:16 says:

    "Thus saith Yahweh, Stand ye in the ways and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way; and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls: but they said, We will not walk therein."

    Such acts would only be described as perverted and abominable. The reason people don't see anything wrong with it today is because it has been desensitised by the media.
     
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    A lot of people see it as a good form of foreplay. What would you recommend instead?
     
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    Hi Jaiket. They are laws which prohibit what we can and cannot do during sex in the Word. Sex between those of the same gender is prohibited (Leviticus 18:22). Sex while a woman is on her period is also prohibited (Levitcus 18:19). It isn't daft. They are so many sexual diseases going around, and yet you say an instructional manual is daft.
    STIs commonly caught through oral sex are:
    I do wonder. If Yahweh hadn't put any laws in place regarding sex, and sexually transmitted diseases were ravaging the world, who would get the blame? Yahweh. It's not daft to think that we have to exercise self-control in sex also. Self control is after all one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).
     
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    This is true in pretty much every developed country.
     
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    Quoting the sexiest verse of the Bible?

    If you are the right kind of kinky the binding of Isaac becomes a lot more interesting.
     
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    Hi and also welcome. :)

    To me, what you call laws are passages in one particular text given heed by a few obscure and backwards traditions of interpretation.

    Given that, what are the laws prohibiting oral sex?
     
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    Hi Rival. To me it’s clear. There is nothing wrong with using your mouth during sex, but there is something wrong with putting genitalia in your mouth. When writing my original post, the study for oral sex was around fellatio. I thought that was obvious from the post but I should’ve perhaps made it clear.
     
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    This
     
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