1 Samuel 16:7. 'But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him:
for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.'
Wise words. I do wonder though why it is that so many Christians I have spoken with treat the heart as something to be feared, distrusted, and even disowned?
I have countless times encountered quotations of scripture saying "the heart is deceitfully wicked and should not be trusted," by Christians when challenged in their beliefs by asking questions such as, what does your heart tell you about this? Instead, they throw out the heart question, and cite scriptures from their heads as the all-important trump card over the heart. I find that response to be error.
To me, trusting what your heart tells you, is what it means to learn how to be led by God. But instead, many believers hide heart knowledge underneath their beliefs about God which originate in their heads, and their fears.
Do you think you're honest regarding the needs of your heart?
The more out of my head and into my heart I become through practice, the more natural it becomes to be authentic. But if we spend all our time in our heads, reasoning, analyzing, researching, etc, and less about being quiet and listening with the heart, then we become out of touch with our hearts and less authentic, or more inauthentic.
What causes us to become 'hard of heart'?
When we treat our heart as the enemy of the mind and distrust it. The result will be increased anxieties and fears as we don't know how to weather the challenges of life. We end up with little root or grounding. So instead we create all manner of "projects" to compensate for that, and essentially ignore the heart to the point it has no voice in our lives. That's one major way that happens.
Other ways are pain. Fear. Insecurity. Loss. etc. Like a wounded child left on its own, the heart goes into self-protection mode and snarls at life trying to keep it away from further harm. And there are of course other reasons as well, all of which are detrimental to our souls.