You'll have to forgive me for being vague ~ I don't want to share certain personal details online. So I'll break it down to this:
1) I live in a country where I'm free to vote and think how I like.
2) I live in a family who will say I'm free to vote and think how I like, but they don't really mean it because...
3) if I dare to disagree, even slightly, I will get hammered big time.
4) So I'm allowed to have my opinions as long as they match the majority of opinions around me. If my opinions do not match, I am expected to keep my mouth shut (Which is what I do 98% of the time. The other 2% starts off with a benign statement from me like, "Oh, I suppose I could see his point of view." I know...how inflammatory!).
Oh, and...
5) Apparently I'm surrounded by both domestic and foreign policy experts, as I'm the only one who has stated that I am not an expert in either nor do I know what goes on behind closed doors.
This isn't about one party vs another. This is about being grown up enough to hear an opposing thought or two without throwing a tantrum. I don't require people to think exactly like me. I don't give a crap if you voted Democrat, Republican, Green Party, or you wrote in your dog's name. You don't need to agree with me across the board on social or political issues. Who or if you worship doesn't even come into play. I recognize and respect that you have your reasons for thinking and living the way you do, and I won't harass you about it. Ever. I'll chat with you, I'll disagree perhaps, but I won't be obnoxious.
*growls*
Please tell me I'm not alone in this boat.
1) I live in a country where I'm free to vote and think how I like.
2) I live in a family who will say I'm free to vote and think how I like, but they don't really mean it because...
3) if I dare to disagree, even slightly, I will get hammered big time.
4) So I'm allowed to have my opinions as long as they match the majority of opinions around me. If my opinions do not match, I am expected to keep my mouth shut (Which is what I do 98% of the time. The other 2% starts off with a benign statement from me like, "Oh, I suppose I could see his point of view." I know...how inflammatory!).
Oh, and...
5) Apparently I'm surrounded by both domestic and foreign policy experts, as I'm the only one who has stated that I am not an expert in either nor do I know what goes on behind closed doors.
This isn't about one party vs another. This is about being grown up enough to hear an opposing thought or two without throwing a tantrum. I don't require people to think exactly like me. I don't give a crap if you voted Democrat, Republican, Green Party, or you wrote in your dog's name. You don't need to agree with me across the board on social or political issues. Who or if you worship doesn't even come into play. I recognize and respect that you have your reasons for thinking and living the way you do, and I won't harass you about it. Ever. I'll chat with you, I'll disagree perhaps, but I won't be obnoxious.
*growls*