That is a trick I sometimes use to find " lost " threads too . By going to my profile and checking out my posts . This forum is huge ...
Ok . I agree that on one level the " self " is one . I mean , my physical body does not " think " as such . However , just how much info is imprinted into our DNA is debatible . Instincts and the like . I do have a hard time deciding where these " instincts " end and emotions start . But for the sake of arguement , I have given my " body " a voice , a mind of it's own if you will .
Our Realities are in continuous interaction with each other . Which is what makes up the " self " as a whole . And being diabetic , I think that the " Body " has a very load voice at times . Using your excample , the " Body " doesn't really want a cookie , it wants something sweet . And by making the trade off from the cookie to the sweet apple can work . The " Mind " can train the " Body ". And that is where we can find conflict . If the Mind trys to push the Body too far . An extreme excample of this would be an addict . I am also a smoker , so I can say that is another battle that my Body wins over my Mind . I know that smoking is not good for me , but my Body is addicted and DEMANDS a cigarette very few minutes . Yes , there is a mental side to that addiction , but largely it is physical .
Yes , any " struggle " actually happens within our Mental Reality . The Physical Reality usually doesn't get that deep . It reacts . It is the primeval force of suevival that drives us . We are hungery , so we eat . What we eat doesn't much matter , however your " Physical Selves " are very easily contdictioned to desire ... cookies .
But an excample of how our Physical Being could be in conflict with one of our " higher " Selves " would be Lust vs Love .
Your excample of someone cutting you off in traffic doesn't really go deep enough . Why were you cut off ? Were you too close ? Was it a mistake on the other driver's part ? Chances are , you weren't really reacting to anything " Physical " at all , but to what you " Mentally " believed happened . If so , one could ask if the " conflict " really had anything to do with the Physical at all ? Other then a physical triggering the reaction .
Yea , I am kinda pushing it a bit .
But to see something in a way that we aren't use to viewing it sometimes requires being pushed beyond the norm .
A very good question . How do we know if the three Realities are in balance ? I'm afraid I don't have an answer . I think that this is a natural state of our being , and as such it would be as hard to define as how we know that we are truely alive . I mean we really have nothing to conpare it too if we have never been more " in balance " then we are right now . I guess this is where the Spiritual comes into play . The more in balance we are , the more Spiritual we are ??? If it works like the Chakra , then that would be the case . At least the easier it would be fore us to be in touch with the Spiritual side of ourselves .
Actually I have had people say that they didn't know me because of my actions . But I agree that usually we do stay " within character " while in a familuar environment . It is when we find ourselves outside this environment that the dark and secert parts of our personalities come out . Ok , they aren't always so dark , and perhaps not so secert . But you know what I mean .
And thank you for your comments .
These are only my own beliefs and I am not trying to convince any others to follow them . But they should be able to stand on their own , at least to the point that another can kinda understand where I am coming from . And this is what this thread is all about really . To see if I can explain my beliefs in a way others can grasp . Or to find out if I am just totally delusional .