In the video there were references to 'Welfare' and family support. Eberstadt also mentioned many were on pain killers and perhaps they sell some of their medications. Otherwise I don't know how they survive....
Who supported me was family with meals and a room. I preferred to be on my own but they complained they were worried. I wanted to die and saw the sense in dying, but this would cause them to suffer. So I lingered and accepted their help. I could have begged hospitals, churches and the street for medical assistance but never did. I was not going to do that, and I think it was because as a man I somehow felt too much shame in asking for all of that. I suspect that many of the men in the data could be similar. They are hiding, perhaps trying to heal themselves. I can't give a full explanation and neither can the data.
My experience sounds to me exactly like the data he is presenting. In my case I have been working now for almost a year but was not working for many before that and had given up on having a place in society. Its interesting that the data mentioned does seem to reflect my experience of having a back injury which I could not get diagnosed, being on painkillers occasionally (advil in my case) and some kind of depression etc. It sounds like this is a man thing.
What about all of these guys in the data who are poor but not looking for work? Data says they consume entertainment day after day. They waste away in the dark while the world that needs them is having to do without them. Are they better off dead? Are they useless and without function in our society? No.
The presenter of the video says that so many non working men represents a depression-level crisis, and he actually compares Depression data to the modern numbers of men not looking for work which are comparable. He says that the impact is: "
...slower economic growth, wider wealth gaps, bigger budget deficits, more welfare dependence, more public debt, more pressure on fragile families, less social mobility, less civil participation and a weaker polity for our nation..."
So everyone should try to go back to work.