This thread is largely inspired by the idea prevalent in the abrahamic faiths that one should avoid sexual relations until one is married. What I wish to debate here is exactly what that means or entails. Is it just the signed papers that make one married in the eyes of the law? if so why? Why does a signed piece of paper make any difference in whether or not the couple sleeping together is committing sin or not? Is it possible to be "married" without having a legal document that says you are married? If so, how or under what circumstances would this be possible?
Bonus hypothetical: if you take two couples that are equally dedicated to eachother, equally loving, have been together equally as long, and are equally everything you would expect to find in an ideal married couple yet one couple does not have a marriage license, is that couple still "living in sin" if they have sex? Why or why not?
Bonus hypothetical: if you take two couples that are equally dedicated to eachother, equally loving, have been together equally as long, and are equally everything you would expect to find in an ideal married couple yet one couple does not have a marriage license, is that couple still "living in sin" if they have sex? Why or why not?