Males that identify as females using female bathrooms

[We Never Know]

I'm using males/females because I have daughter's. If you want females/males please start your own thread.

Question 1. Would you feel ok/do you feel ok with having a 15 year old male going into the bathroom and using the bathroom at the same time as your 15 year old daughter goes in to use it?

Question 2 will follow in a few days.

Mods if this isn't allowed feel free to delete the thread. It's not a debate, it's a discussion.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

I don't call transwomen 'males.' And I have no problem with transwomen using women's restrooms, no matter what age of the participants of that bathroom. I actually would prefer bathrooms be unisex anyway, like most nations have. And yet somehow don't have a huge amount of sexual assault in the restroom as fear mongers would have you believe.

 

[sooda]

I'm using males/females because I have daughter's. If you want females/males please start your own thread.

Question 1. Would you feel ok/do you feel ok with having a 15 year old male going into the bathroom and using the bathroom at the same time as your 15 year old daughter goes in to use it?

Question 2 will follow in a few days.

Mods if this isn't allowed feel free to delete the thread. It's not a debate, it's a discussion.

Women's bathrooms have stalls with latches on the door.

 

[SoyLeche]

I'm using males/females because I have daughter's. If you want females/males please start your own thread.

Question 1. Would you feel ok/do you feel ok with having a 15 year old male going into the bathroom and using the bathroom at the same time as your 15 year old daughter goes in to use it?

Question 2 will follow in a few days.

Mods if this isn't allowed feel free to delete the thread. It's not a debate, it's a discussion.

I don’t see why it should bother me.

 

[We Never Know]

It my be a while before I get back on so I will go ahead and post question 2.

Question 2. Would you feel ok/do you feel ok with having a 15 year old male that identifies as a female going into the same locker room and using the shower at the same time as your 15 year old daughter goes in to use the shower?

 

[We Never Know]

I don't call transwomen 'males.' And I have no problem with transwomen using women's restrooms, no matter what age of the participants of that bathroom. I actually would prefer bathrooms be unisex anyway, like most nations have. And yet somehow don't have a huge amount of sexual assault in the restroom as fear mongers would have you believe.

Then would you feel ok with having a 15 year old male that identifies as a female going into the same locker room and using the shower at the same time as your 15 year old daughter goes in to use the shower?

 

[We Never Know]

I don’t see why it should bother me.

Then would you feel ok with having a 15 year old male that identifies as a female going into the same locker room and using the shower at the same time as your 15 year old daughter goes in to use the shower?

 

[ADigitalArtist]

Then would you feel ok with having a 15 year old male that identifies as a female going into the same locker room and using the shower at the same time as your 15 year old daughter goes in to use the shower?

Yep.

 

[SoyLeche]

It my be a while before I get back on so I will go ahead and post question 2.

Question 2. Would you feel ok/do you feel ok with having a 15 year old male that identifies as a female going into the same locker room and using the shower at the same time as your 15 year old daughter goes in to use the shower?

Communal showers should go away. With individual stalls, I see no problem.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

This is a transman. Do you want him to be forced to go into a woman's bathroom/shower because his assigned at birth gender was female?

 

[We Never Know]

Communal showers should go away. With individual stalls, I see no problem.

So modify to what you feel is right and it's ok. That pretty much misses the point.

 

[We Never Know]

Yep.

Kudos. I wouldn't be ok with it.

 

[SoyLeche]

So modify to what you feel is right and it's ok. That pretty much misses the point.

Not really. Things adjust, as they should.

 

[We Never Know]

This is a transman. Do you want him to be forced to go into a woman's bathroom/shower because his assigned at birth gender was female?

He clearly isn't a 9-12 schooler either.

 

[Revoltingest]

I'm using males/females because I have daughter's. If you want females/males please start your own thread.

Question 1. Would you feel ok/do you feel ok with having a 15 year old male going into the bathroom and using the bathroom at the same time as your 15 year old daughter goes in to use it?

Question 2 will follow in a few days.

Mods if this isn't allowed feel free to delete the thread. It's not a debate, it's a discussion.

OK with it.
It prolly already happened here in The People's Republic Of Ann Arbor.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

Kudos. I wouldn't be ok with it.

Who should and shouldn't be able to use them definitely should not be based on comfort levels.

He clearly isn't a 9-12 schooler either.

And what if he were? The man is from the UK. Mostly unisex public bathrooms there anyway.

 

[Revoltingest]

He clearly isn't a 9-12 schooler either.

He could be a senior.

 

[We Never Know]

Before I go, I'm going to throw this out there.
I saw a while back where someone insinuated I post then run.
Let me assure you that is not right. I have a life to live, real people to see and converse with, a horse ranch to operate, grandkids to spend time with, sales to attend, etc.
I don't have time to come here every day, for hours a day, to just hang out and BS.
Our lives differ so don't judge me for not being here often and I won't judge you for being here all the time.
Have a wonderful weekend.

 

[Revoltingest]

Before I go, I'm going to throw this out there.
I saw a while back where someone insinuated I post then run.
Let me assure you that is not right. I have a life to live, real people to see and converse with, a horse ranch to operate, grandkids to spend time with, sales to attend, etc.
I don't have time to come here every day, for hours a day, to just hang out and BS.
Our lives differ so don't judge me for not being here often and I won't judge you for being here all the time.
Have a wonderful weekend.

I notice that you like to converse.
Abandon discussions....you?
Pish posh!

 

[We Never Know]

He could be a senior.

Senior's aren't 15 years old. I clearly stated 15 years old.