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Love your flaws!

Geoff-Allen

Resident megalomaniac
Hope you are all well!

Here's a page I found recently -

"Most of us are taught to hide our flaws. To be embarrassed (or deathly afraid) of that which isn’t perfect about us, even though it is the very thing that makes us human and connects us to the world. Our flaws are the ground of our being, the very things that make us who we are. If we hide our flaws, if we run from them, we are denying our very being, that which makes us unique."

Alexis Yael

Like it or not, we're all flawed. Not a single one of us is perfect. And that's one of the great things about life. We all have so many wonderful things to offer -- and, yet, we're not always so wonderful. Not only do we have flaws, but each of us struggles with feeling flawed (which is, perhaps, a flaw in and of itself). But whether the flaws that plague you are emotional, mental, or physical flaws, the key to overcoming them is knowing how to accept them -- and ultimately fall in love with them. Because, as the Alexis Yael has so wisely stated, our flaws are what make us unique. They are what ground us. They are, in a sense, what keep us in the present.

Of course we all know how difficult it is to accept (and love!) flaws. It's a difficult thing to do when it comes to other people and when it comes to ourselves, well, it's can seem nearly impossible. But, hard as it might seem, it is possible to love even the most flawed parts of yourself. And not only is it possible, it's essential to living a positively present life. To live positively in the present, you must love yourself for who you are -- and loving yourself means loving even the not-so-great parts of yourself. Learning to love your flaws might feel like a constant battle, but that acceptance, that love, is worth fighting for. Here's how to get started...

The full article is available here -

4 steps for falling in love with your flaws

All the best!
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber
Depends on the flaw. Having Asperger's, that's not too hard as it does come with some trade offs. My difficulties sleeping and bowed shins and screwed up knees, there is just no way to love them, or the pain they cause.
 

Spirit of Light

Be who ever you want
Maybe people see their "Flaws" as negative because of how the society is fixated on how to be "Perfect" that the ads in TV or in the magazine have made a distorted image of how we "should" look, so for those of us who have minor or major "flaws" would be lookd down at from those who can not see that we are all the same. Human beings.
 

Geoff-Allen

Resident megalomaniac
Maybe not totally on topic? -

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Cheers!
 
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