Sunstone said:
It certainly encourages cheating.
yeah it does which can be the most frustrating test....
I remember a story my ex once told me that i think is very telling....
She said, and this was a few months before we started dating, that she was at a party with some friends of hers and there was this guy there that they knew. Now he was, apparently, really cute but had a gf...now that didn't stop them from hitting on him...and later that night one of her friends ended up sleeping with him. Now she looks at me and said that she and all her friends were all excited that this guy had cheated on his gf w/ their friend...not because his gf was a b!tch or anything, but just that he was really cute. She thought this was a good thing!
So i looked at her and said, and this was ok with you? She was like, yeah. I said, but what about his girl? She basically said, so what.
then i said...well is it ok if some chick wants to sleep with me cause she thinks i'm cute?
Yeah she got real quiet after that one....