Proverbs 8 gives us a clue as to who the Father was talking to.....
V22-31...
"Jehovah produced me as the beginning of his way,
The earliest of his achievements of long ago.
23 From ancient times I was installed,
From the start, from times earlier than the earth.
24 When there were no deep waters, I was brought forth,
When there were no springs overflowing with water,
25 Before the mountains were set in place,
Before the hills, I was brought forth,
26 When he had not yet made the earth and its fields
Or the first clods of earth’s soil.
27 When he prepared the heavens, I was there;
When he marked out the horizon on the surface of the waters,
28 When he established the clouds above,
When he founded the fountains of the deep,
29 When he set a decree for the sea
That its waters should not pass beyond his order,
When he established the foundations of the earth,
30 Then I was beside him as a master worker.
I was the one he was especially fond of day by day;
I rejoiced before him all the time;
31 I rejoiced over his habitable earth,
And I was especially fond of the sons of men."
Here wisdom is personified....but the description fits God's son and agrees with what the apostle Paul said at Colossians 1:15-17....
"He [Jesus] is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation; 16 because by means of him all things were created in the heavens and on the earth, the things visible and the things invisible, whether they are thrones or lordships or governments or authorities. All things have been created through him and for him. 17 Also, he is before all other things, and by means of him all other things were made to exist".
Proverbs is not talking about God's wisdom because it says that God produced it as the 'earliest of his achievements', which would be saying that God was not always wise. Revelation 3:14 says that Jesus was
"the beginning of God's creation".
Creation came "through" the son, not "from" him. The Father alone is the Creator, but he was ably assisted by his firstborn. I believe that God was talking to his "master Worker" in Genesis 1:26.
There is no gender in heaven, so God is not spoken of as a "he" because he is male, but because of his headship arrangement on earth, males were given authority to teach and to act as priests and shepherds.
Women had an important role in God's arrangement, but exercising authority over men was not part of it.
Humility prevents women from wanting to usurp the role of men. They are created as 'compliments' of their male counterparts, not as competition for them.