People idol worship the words of the Bible. You do realizing the words talking about Jesus in the Bible are NOT a religion. The men talking about Jesus in the Bible are men. Jesus Christ was a great Jewish rabbi. He had some wonderful teachings. But people idolizing the words come off to me like fans of an NFL football team.
And when you read words you only understand something so well. The way you really understand a subject is by writing about it. If you really want to understand the Bible you have to write it out in your own words. But most people do not care to take the time to really learn what it is they supposedly believe. Instead, they prefer to be just told what to believe by some "authority". For you, you claim the Bible is your authority. For me I cannot accept the Bible as the word of God. I believe the Bible is words written by men who had certain bigotries and prejudices based on the historical context of their lives.
For example, I could go through a 100 lines of scripture pointing out why it is immoral to accept the Bibles teaching. But instead I will do just two for you to comment on:
“Slaves, submit yourselves to your masters with all respect, not only to the good and gentle but also to the cruel.” (1 Peter 2:18)
The implication here is slavery is morally okay. In what Universe is owning another person morally okay? If you are typical Christian you will probably say nothing. Meaning the Bible is the word of God and if the Bible says slavery is okay then slaver is okay. But if you are man with any backbone at all you will state: "Yes, slavery is not morally okay." In all my countless conversations with Christians I have never heard one say slavery is immoral. Am I in league with Satan for thinking slavery is immoral? Am I possessed by Satan for thinking Peter 2:18 may be one the most evil and immoral sentiments I've ever read in my life? Would you be in league with Satan if you agreed with me?
So how can you say your religion, Christianity, is based on a God of love? Because in reality, it really seems like a God of hate, war, authoritarianism, oppression, sadism, masochism, and many other morally reprehensible ways of being based on the scriptures I've read in the Bible. Generally, I don't trust someone telling me what to think. The men who wrote the words in the Bible have no greater moral authority than I do. I would rather trust my own inner moral compass than goat herders from 2000 years ago who did not read a single book in their lives.
Here's another example: “So the man took his concubine and sent her outside to them, and they raped her and abused her throughout the night, and at dawn they let her go. At daybreak the woman went back to the house where her master was staying, fell down at the door and lay there until daylight. When her master got up in the morning and opened the door of the house and stepped out to continue on his way, there lay his concubine, fallen in the doorway of the house, with her hands on the threshold. He said to her, ‘Get up; let’s go.’ But there was no answer. Then the man put her on his donkey and set out for home.” (Judges 19:25-28)
Masters, slaves, rape, concubines, donkeys! Oh my! Do you think it was very Christian of the master to put the concubine outside so she could be raped? Answer this one question otherwise there really is no point in us having any conversation at all. I only like to talk to people who have some shred of human decency and morality.