Emily Shipgod
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Do you think that living with your significant other before marriage is a sin? Even if your intentions are to evaluate how compatible you two are together before "tying the knot"?
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No I don't and I don't think the church is any position at all to give the rest of us lectures on sexual morality. The whole position of the church on sex is incoherent, based as it largely is on inherited ideas from the centuries before contraception uncoupled sex from procreation.Do you think that living with your significant other before marriage is a sin? Even if your intentions are to evaluate how compatible you two are together before "tying the knot"?
It wasn't sinful at all.Do you think that living with your significant other before marriage is a sin? Even if your intentions are to evaluate how compatible you two are together before "tying the knot"?
Having done it both ways, I'd say that - at least for me - living together first was the better option for setting the marriage up for success... so from my perspective, people who value marriage should support cohabitation before marriage.Do you think that living with your significant other before marriage is a sin? Even if your intentions are to evaluate how compatible you two are together before "tying the knot"?
Do you think that living with your significant other before marriage is a sin? Even if your intentions are to evaluate how compatible you two are together before "tying the knot"?
Once you're living together, you've pretty much tied the knot as far as I'm concerned.
Sometimes people are afraid to get married and for good reason. If anything goes wrong they get blamed by society. Under such conditions its a good idea not to jump into marriage, however living with someone unmarried still does not tell you what they will do after you are married and can't get away easily. The entire problem is the blame and scorn and the requirement not to divorce ever, and people living together is relatively less sinful than that. Why? It is because it is less harmful.Do you think that living with your significant other before marriage is a sin? Even if your intentions are to evaluate how compatible you two are together before "tying the knot"?
Once you're living together, you've pretty much tied the knot as far as I'm concerned.
Do you think that living with your significant other before marriage is a sin? Even if your intentions are to evaluate how compatible you two are together before "tying the knot"?
Do you think that living with your significant other before marriage is a sin? Even if your intentions are to evaluate how compatible you two are together before "tying the knot"?
Doesn't always work that way. Knew two couples that didn't make it. One couple lived together for about 8 years, got married, and divorced 6 months later. The other couple lived together for about 2 years, got married, and didn't even make it through the honeymoon (seriously, the husband went on the cruise by himself). Although I don't disagree with you, I think that if two people love each other, then they should legally marry as a sign of commitment if nothing else.
While I think that if two people love each other, there is no reason to tell the government about it. Commitment should be made clear daily via actions between the people involved. Marriage is good for various legal benefits, but that's about it.
Has nothing to do with telling the government anything. It's telling the world that this is a legitimate lifetime commitment without using something as nebulous as a Unicorn Pinkie Finger Oath.
"If it ain't broke, don't fix it" often makes a lot of sense.Doesn't always work that way. Knew two couples that didn't make it. One couple lived together for about 8 years, got married, and divorced 6 months later. The other couple lived together for about 2 years, got married, and didn't even make it through the honeymoon (seriously, the husband went on the cruise by himself). Although I don't disagree with you, I think that if two people love each other, then they should legally marry as a sign of commitment if nothing else.
*shrug* Why tell the world? Tell you friends and family and go from there.
They didn't mention sex.No I don't and I don't think the church is any position at all to give the rest of us lectures on sexual morality. The whole position of the church on sex is incoherent, based as it largely is on inherited ideas from the centuries before contraception uncoupled sex from procreation.
Go back and read my edited post.