joe1776
Well-Known Member
The most useful lesson that I have learned in my 85 years on this planet was not learned in a classroom or from a book. The most useful lesson came from playing Bridge and Poker. The lesson is an attitude: Accept the hand dealt as a given and play it for the best possible result.
Adaptability to changing conditions is the most useful of all human traits because it enables our species to survive and thrive. Those conditions would be very different for a black female living in the American South in the year 1820 than those for a white male living in the American North in 2020. However, both might learn to play the hand dealt skillfully. That skill would begin by adopting the attitude of accepting the hands dealt in life as a given with the objective of playing them for the best possible result.
It is my opinion that skillful players in the Game of Life will waste no time with self-pity, blaming others, or worrying about things they cannot control. Instead, they will strive to minimize their losses and maximize their gains at every opportunity. When people are depressed, it is probably because they are not accepting the hands dealt as a given.
Adaptability to changing conditions is the most useful of all human traits because it enables our species to survive and thrive. Those conditions would be very different for a black female living in the American South in the year 1820 than those for a white male living in the American North in 2020. However, both might learn to play the hand dealt skillfully. That skill would begin by adopting the attitude of accepting the hands dealt in life as a given with the objective of playing them for the best possible result.
It is my opinion that skillful players in the Game of Life will waste no time with self-pity, blaming others, or worrying about things they cannot control. Instead, they will strive to minimize their losses and maximize their gains at every opportunity. When people are depressed, it is probably because they are not accepting the hands dealt as a given.