No, its a fact. Such religious teachings do have parents disowning children, does cause people to hate and disapproval, and does lead to self shame and hate. The Mormon church is so demented in this area that it pushed prop 8 to strip homosexuals of rights and enforce legally enforce their religious bigotry as law, all so they can tell homosexuals their love is sinful and their marriage not real.
Such actions are very much against church teachings. Families which disown their children are going very much against church teachings.
As for Prop 8, you are 100% WRONG. Proposition 8 did not attempt to remove any rights from homosexuals. The entire text of it is something like "only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California" No rights that homosexuals had were abrogated in this. In fact, gays could, and did, enter into domestic partnerships had EVERY right that heterosexual married couples had...and a few that married gays in other states did NOT have; for instance, Califorina domestic partnerships were recognized as such everywhere, but gays married in other states might not be recognized, even as domestic partnerships, in some places.
In other words, NO right that California extended to married couples in California was removed, or even addressed, by Prop. 8.
You know what Prop 8 was about? I was there. I KNOW this stuff, which you obviously do not. I was hip deep in a whole bunch of debates with gay marriage advocates about this. They COULD NOT argue that Prop 8 was going to take any of their rights away, because of course it wasn't. Their arguments were simple. They wanted their relationships to be recognized as MARRIAGES by churches, and to force clergypeople to perform weddings, recognize them in all ways, and to allow gay married people full ecclesiastical privileges in their belief system.
As for me, I was all for Prop 8. Not because I was against gay marriage. Frankly, I didnt, and don't, have a problem with it. I was for it BECAUSE of the stated goals and aims of those who opposed it so vehemently. The ONLY right that Prop 8 would have 'taken away' was the right for them to force religions to recognize their unions ecclesiastically....the right to ask a Catholic parish priest to marry them in a local parish and force him to do that--or be punished civilly.
that is why the Catholics (far more than the Mormons, btw) and other churches wanted it. We didn't give a hoot whether a 'domestic partner' had the same civil rights a married couple had. WE (the LDS) certainly had no opposition to those. We just didn't want the state to dictate religious marriage views TO US.
Had the gays who were so up in arms against it been reasonable in their demands, I honestly do not think we would have had a problem with gay marriage in California. In other words, it wasn't about what we 'wanted to do to gays' it was what the gays wanted to force US to do.
As to why Mormons were so determined, along with the Catholics and others, to get this on the ballet....remember, though the gays SAID (sometimes) that there is no way that any clergyman would be forced to marry gays, we of all groups knew better. We used to be polygamists, remember? Such marriage customs as that were between consenting adults, nobody forced non-members to observe or approve of it, but the USA kicked us entirely out of the country (to the tune of over 3,000 dead) and not content with that, sent half the nation's armed services after us BECAUSE OF OUR MARRIAGE customs. So we KNOW that the gays COULD get their way, and the state COULD force us to accept gay marriage, ecclesiastically. It wasn't a 'scare tactic' or 'propaganda' for us. It was history. It happened--and it happened again the same year prop 8 was being proposed and fought. We KNEW what could happen, because it had happened.
So you are claiming that we were attempting to remove 'rights,' do you? Exactly what 'right' did we attempt to remove? I DARE you to list one...that did NOT involve forcing religions to change their doctrines to accommodate gay couples.
Remember. In California gay couples had EVERY SINGLE RIGHT that married couples did. Every single one, plus a couple married people did NOT have. Don't mention social security and taxes; that was a federal problem and had the feds extended those rights to domestic partnerships, the Californian domestic partners would have had those, and WE wouldn't have had any problems with them, either.