Just wondering ...

[Geoff-Allen]

Here's a puzzler -

Does being judgemental make you unhappy or does being unhappy make you judgemental?

Cheers!

 

[Katzpur]

Here's a puzzler -

Does being judgemental make you unhappy or does being unhappy make you judgemental?

Cheers!

I love easy questions! Being unhappy makes you judgmental. If you're truly happy, you don't have to find fault with others to build your own self-esteem and contentment.

 

[Geoff-Allen]

I love easy questions! Being unhappy makes you judgmental. If you're truly happy, you don't have to find fault with others to build your own self-esteem and contentment.

Glad you think it was easy I suppose ... I still see it as a chicken-and-the-egg type of question.

Cheers!

 

[ADigitalArtist]

I can see it easily becoming a self perpetuating cycle with either as the beginning.

 

[Hockeycowboy]

Glad you think it was easy I suppose ... I still see it as a chicken-and-the-egg type of question.

Cheers!

Yep, it can be a vicious cycle.

 

[JoshuaTree]

Here's a puzzler -

Does being judgemental make you unhappy or does being unhappy make you judgemental?

Cheers!

I'm not judgemental.

 

[Geoff-Allen]

I'm not judgemental.

I never implied you were!

 

[JoshuaTree]

I never implied you were!

The wording of the question makes me think you are an attorney lol.

 

[Geoff-Allen]

"Sometimes, people can be extraordinarily judgmental and closed-minded to anyone different or special, which is why it's so hard for young people in this day and age to be comfortable enough in their own skin to not listen to the people picking on them."

Judgmental Quotes - BrainyQuote

 

[Geoff-Allen]

The wording of the question makes me think you are an attorney lol.

I'm not nearly enough messed-up to become a lawyer!

Oops is that a judgemental thought?

 

[Geoff-Allen]

"Judging others will avail you nothing and injure you spiritually. Only if you can inspire others to judge themselves will anything worthwhile have been accomplished. When you approach others in judgment they will be on the defensive. When you are able to approach them in a kindly, loving manner without judgment they will tend to judge themselves and be transformed."

~ Peace Pilgrim

quotes, quotations and passages on Judgment, an obstacle to living life fully

 

[sun rise]

Here's a puzzler -

Does being judgemental make you unhappy or does being unhappy make you judgemental?

Cheers!

I think both can be true.

 

[Geoff-Allen]

If you want an interesting Google search:

I hate judgemental people!

 

[Geoff-Allen]

I think both can be true.

I guess I am off a similar opinion - the big question is what to do about it to help them break the habit ... that can't be an enjoyable experience ...

 

[Sophia M. B.]

Here's a puzzler -
For me it goes both ways.
Does being judgemental make you unhappy or does being unhappy make you judgemental?

Cheers!

 

[Sophia M. B.]

I typed it wrong, oops!

 

[sun rise]

I guess I am off a similar opinion - the big question is what to do about it to help them break the habit ... that can't be an enjoyable experience ...

One of my many weaknesses is being judgemental from time-to-time. So I need to break my own habit before I can help others.

 

[Geoff-Allen]

One of my many weaknesses is being judgemental from time-to-time. So I need to break my own habit before I can help others.

Same here - though I don't indulge anywhere near as much as I used to!

Here's to all of us breaking baaaad habits.

 

[Geoff-Allen]

 

[Geoff-Allen]

One of my many weaknesses is being judgemental from time-to-time. So I need to break my own habit before I can help others.

I must confess I am surprised.

I have read a lot of your posts and you don't strike me as being terribly judgemental.

You hide it well!