Is prostitution wrong?

[Me Myself]

I disagree with the not hurting anyone part, of course you can say they are hurting themselves.

Not necesarily.

Sex feels good, and they are being paid. I can tell you sex feels good. I didn´t feel hurt after it neither

 

[The Sum of Awe]

Not necesarily.

Sex feels good, and they are being paid. I can tell you sex feels good. I didn´t feel hurt after it neither

Yes, although many prostitutes (today because it's illegal) don't get the kind of guys they want, but they really need money, so they have to sleep with a ghetto backstreet grease guy because those are the only kind of people that break laws.

I think that's what he means.

I agree though, if it were legal I think they would have much more choice and it could be pleasureful.

 

[Me Myself]

I agree though, if it were legal I think they would have much more choice and it could be pleasureful.

Well, that is my point.

There are al ot of prostitutes that gain BIG money. Not only poor prostitutes exist.

 

[Sonic247]

Not necesarily.

Sex feels good, and they are being paid. I can tell you sex feels good. I didn´t feel hurt after it neither

Well it probably has long range consequences. For instance I think that the percentage of people having premarital sex directly impacts the divorce rate.

 

[Me Myself]

Well it probably has long range consequences. For instance I think that the percentage of people having premarital sex directly impacts the divorce rate.

You know that the 100% of divorce couples were married before divorcing?

Seriously though, that may be for other reasons.

For example, if you didn´t have sex before marriage it is VERY much likely you didn´t have it because of religious reasons. If you are so religious you won´t even have sex prior to marriage, it would be far more natural that you would stuck in am arriage even if you are unhappy with it for religious reasons.

I wouldn´t think the direct reason would be sex, but more likely religious conservatism.

Doesn´t this sound sensical?

 

[Sonic247]

You know that the 100% of divorce couples were married before divorcing?

Seriously though, that may be for other reasons.

For example, if you didn´t have sex before marriage it is VERY much likely you didn´t have it because of religious reasons. If you are so religious you won´t even have sex prior to marriage, it would be far more natural that you would stuck in am arriage even if you are unhappy with it for religious reasons.

I wouldn´t think the direct reason would be sex, but more likely religious conservatism.

Doesn´t this sound sensical?

Well I can't prove it but in my opinion I think that if someone wasn't religious but still kept the policy of not having sex until he was married he would be a lot less likely to end up divorced. Or to even want a divorce. The whole concept of no strings attached, I don't believe in it.

 

[Me Myself]

Well I can't prove it but in my opinion I think that if someone wasn't religious but still kept the policy of not having sex until he was married he would be a lot less likely to end up divorced. Or to even want a divorce. The whole concept of no strings attached, I don't believe in it.

I think he would be a LOT more likely to get a divorce. ALL those women he hasn´t have sex with? ALL those men? etc

If one feels forced to not have sex until marriage, then one could marry just for sex (and bull*** oneself that "It is for love" is incredibly easy when one doesn´t tell the difference)

In any case, marriage is definetely not for everyone. Open marriages still exist even. If the women (or men why not?) want to be prostitutes, then that is their choice. If they were ready to sel their bodies for sex I can definetely tell you they would be able to be gold diggers anyways, and not have any kind of meaningfull marriage when they do get marry. They could even be faithfull to one another. One is for the body of the chick, and the chick for the money of the old geezer.

this people aren not magically gonna wait for marriage just beause they can´t prostitute themselves.

 

[Sonic247]

I think he would be a LOT more likely to get a divorce. ALL those women he hasn´t have sex with? ALL those men? etc

If one feels forced to not have sex until marriage, then one could marry just for sex (and bull*** oneself that "It is for love" is incredibly easy when one doesn´t tell the difference)

I'm not gonna say your definitely wrong.... but your definitely wrong. What actually happens is- All those women he has slept with... not the other way around. Obviously someone is more likely to think about someone they have slept with than someone they haven't.

 

[Me Myself]

I'm not gonna say your definitely wrong.... but your definitely wrong. What actually happens is- All those women he has slept with... not the other way around. Obviously someone is more likely to think about someone they have slept with than someone they haven't.

Never heard "grass is greener in the other side"?

Ask your grandma, most women in the past said it was better to let go all the women they knew their husbands were cheating on them on( I am not saying this is the case of your grandma, I am saying she wold probably know )

It was "okay" to cheat on wifes because it didn´t feel fair to only have had sex with one woman. one man doesn´t know what is to have sex with a big boobed lady he wants to find out, with a little boobed, a big butt, a redhead, etc, etc ,etc

The secon they think "I could have gone this way..." it gets messy.

If I make yo choose about having 25 bucks every day or a bag of random money, maybe you´ll choose the 25 bucks many times... but I can assure you that enough days pass and with each passing day you´ll wonder a lot more about the bag and then you´ll ask it from time to time.

What is there to lose? you´ve already experienced the 25 bucks. Maybe thereis more money in the bag, right?

 

[Sonic247]

I think one woman getting old is a myth. If I had only one guitar I could still learn different songs. Besides even if a guy starts to feel attracted to another girl and has sex with his wife he will still be satisfied afterwards. That is why it says in the Bible husbands and wives shouldn't deny each other.

 

[Me Myself]

I think one woman getting old is a myth. If I had only one guitar I could still learn different songs. Besides even if a guy starts to feel attracted to another girl and has sex with his wife he will still be satisfied afterwards.

receiving 25 freebucks a day would be satisfacting to me always. Still if I have the bag of random money and I have had 25 bucks everyday, I am going to look at the bag eventually.

It is not about satisfaction, is about curiosity. And human are curious by nature.

the reality is that different people have different outlooks of this same things.

This immidialy makes the same path unusable for different persons.

 

[Sonic247]

Well whatever, I'm all for the sanctity of marriage... I wouldn't divorce my wife if she slept with someone else, but I wouldn't be happy about it either. I think she would feel the same way... but time will tell I guess.

 

[Me Myself]

Well whatever, I'm all for the sanctity of marriage... I wouldn't divorce my wife if she slept with someone else, but I wouldn't be happy about it either. I think she would feel the same way... but time will tell I guess.

I have no problem with that.

What I am saying is that not eveyrone is like you, and that there are infinite ways to be happy.

Not everyone´s way is with marriage, and for some prostitution is an ideal job, for some a prostitute may be an ideal deal for satisfaction.

The thing is you are aplaying the same measure to everyone that you use for yourself, but not everyone is like yourself, thus the problem.

If having sex for money or paying for sex would hurt you then don´t do it. But as you have said, you haveno evidence of this being the case for everyone no matter what they think about theirselves.

 

[Sonic247]

It would definitely work for everyone... I'm not saying people don't enjoy there debauchery, I'm just saying in the long run God's way is better.

 

[Me Myself]

It would definitely work for everyone... I'm not saying people don't enjoy there debauchery, I'm just saying in the long run God's way is better.

ANd I am just saying God´s way is wider than you think

 

[Sonic247]

Haha are you a prophet then? ^__^

 

[Me Myself]

Haha are you a prophet then? ^__^

Absolutely. Are you not?

 

[Sonic247]

Ahh well. Let's agree to disagree, if I ever have a good marriage I'll have more grounds to talk... stastically it's likely I'll be married one day but who knows I may die tomorrow. Anyway I'm about to fall asleep. cya l8r

 

[Me Myself]

Ahh well. Let's agree to disagree, if I ever have a good marriage I'll have more grounds to talk... stastically it's likely I'll be married one day but who knows I may die tomorrow. Anyway I'm about to fall asleep. cya l8r

May you rest and blessings

:namaste

 

[McBell]

yeah right, well in that case I'll just go up to some guy on the street and say "hey there buddy, your going to beat your wife tonight right?" Then I'll see whether it's an accusation or not. Exactly like you said she preys on the weak so she's not blameless.

If you are content with laying some of the blame of the prostitute, then by all means, whatever helps you sleep at night.