Spiderman
Veteran Member
First off, if you are gay, does the word "homosexual offend you"?
Now, if you are reading this, "What are your thoughts about gays"? I've vowed to be real and honest with RF, so honestly, I'm kind of freaked out by two guys making love. I can't help it. I'm very hesitant to hang out with a gay man, because I have been told I'm hot and had guys come on to me. I had a gay man give me a ride to work, get me stoned, and touch my junk without my permission.
That said, it doesn't mean it's wrong just because I have a fear of it. I'm not scared of Lesbians because they aren't going to molest or come on to me, and if they did, it wouldn't bother me much, as I have been date-raped by a female, and woke up giggling with a funny story to share with my brother and friends. No problem!
So, my fear of gay men is more the fear of possible consequences of hanging out with them. There is also the consequence, that if I'm nice and hang out with them, other's will assume I'm gay.
Now, some of you are thinking: "if you have a problem with gay men, you could be insecure about your own sexuality". I'll admit, when I'm high, I get touchy feely with guys. Meaning I give them hugs, sometimes without their permission, and have been punched in the face for it. I give women hugs, but not as much, because women are more likely to call the police, security, authority figures, or their personal bouncers, where as guys are more likely to just try and knock my lights out, without authority figures getting involved.
However, I have no desire to sleep with or have any sexual relations with a guy. Some are handsome or charming, but never does that lead to a desire to sleep with or make out with them, and it doesn't lead to arousal ever (no matter what drugs or alcohol I'm on)!
So, how gay do you think I am? Maybe God is gay. He could have chosen hot babes to evangelize the world or write some of his book, (like myself or any heterosexual man is likely to do if he has God's powers). He chose a bunch of guys. Queen Esther did some awesome things for God (but she is a rare exception and didn't really perform miracles). Were there women like the 12 Apostles, female miracle workers like Elijah, Elisha, and Moses? No!
Why does being gay offend God? If God is secure about his sexuality, which is questionable, why would homosexual acts offend him? If he is so offended by it, he could change anyone's sexuality. It isn't like all gays want to be gay, and I have known gay Catholics who are in love with God, and beg God without cease to make them heterosexual.
God refuses, therefore, he clearly wants them to be gay. If a Father is ashamed or bothered by his gay son or daughter, and he has the power to switch it, he would do so.
Bottom line is, gay people don't choose to be gay. So why does God get offended by something that is not a choice? Gays are often bullied, rejected by friends, and rejected by family, over something they can't control. Were I God, I would admire people for being themselves in the face of rejection and bullying, rather than try to be fake or cover it up.
Bottom line is, gay people are simply not hurting God. God has the easiest life of anyone and probably lives in luxury like Donald Trump times a billion (while others suffer and starve to death). There is possibly one thing that is heroic about God, and certainly nothing that can harm him. So, stop worrying about Idolaters, atheists, or gays being so offensive to him.
Now, if you are reading this, "What are your thoughts about gays"? I've vowed to be real and honest with RF, so honestly, I'm kind of freaked out by two guys making love. I can't help it. I'm very hesitant to hang out with a gay man, because I have been told I'm hot and had guys come on to me. I had a gay man give me a ride to work, get me stoned, and touch my junk without my permission.
That said, it doesn't mean it's wrong just because I have a fear of it. I'm not scared of Lesbians because they aren't going to molest or come on to me, and if they did, it wouldn't bother me much, as I have been date-raped by a female, and woke up giggling with a funny story to share with my brother and friends. No problem!
So, my fear of gay men is more the fear of possible consequences of hanging out with them. There is also the consequence, that if I'm nice and hang out with them, other's will assume I'm gay.
Now, some of you are thinking: "if you have a problem with gay men, you could be insecure about your own sexuality". I'll admit, when I'm high, I get touchy feely with guys. Meaning I give them hugs, sometimes without their permission, and have been punched in the face for it. I give women hugs, but not as much, because women are more likely to call the police, security, authority figures, or their personal bouncers, where as guys are more likely to just try and knock my lights out, without authority figures getting involved.
However, I have no desire to sleep with or have any sexual relations with a guy. Some are handsome or charming, but never does that lead to a desire to sleep with or make out with them, and it doesn't lead to arousal ever (no matter what drugs or alcohol I'm on)!
So, how gay do you think I am? Maybe God is gay. He could have chosen hot babes to evangelize the world or write some of his book, (like myself or any heterosexual man is likely to do if he has God's powers). He chose a bunch of guys. Queen Esther did some awesome things for God (but she is a rare exception and didn't really perform miracles). Were there women like the 12 Apostles, female miracle workers like Elijah, Elisha, and Moses? No!
Why does being gay offend God? If God is secure about his sexuality, which is questionable, why would homosexual acts offend him? If he is so offended by it, he could change anyone's sexuality. It isn't like all gays want to be gay, and I have known gay Catholics who are in love with God, and beg God without cease to make them heterosexual.
God refuses, therefore, he clearly wants them to be gay. If a Father is ashamed or bothered by his gay son or daughter, and he has the power to switch it, he would do so.
Bottom line is, gay people don't choose to be gay. So why does God get offended by something that is not a choice? Gays are often bullied, rejected by friends, and rejected by family, over something they can't control. Were I God, I would admire people for being themselves in the face of rejection and bullying, rather than try to be fake or cover it up.
Bottom line is, gay people are simply not hurting God. God has the easiest life of anyone and probably lives in luxury like Donald Trump times a billion (while others suffer and starve to death). There is possibly one thing that is heroic about God, and certainly nothing that can harm him. So, stop worrying about Idolaters, atheists, or gays being so offensive to him.
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