I mean blame poor people for being poor. *Assuming* that their circumstances are actual evidence that they are lazy. Assuming as you do that they are "responsible for the decisions that led them to needing said help" when you know nothing about their decisions or what choices were available to them or what circumstances led them to where they are. But you seem quite comfortable holding the idea that they had choices available and made poor decisions and that their poverty is their "fault."
None of this matters.
I made a claim that conservatives are more charitable than liberals and your argument against my claim is, "Maybe - but they might be making assumptions about those they are helping therefore they aren't "really" being charitable."?
Since neither you nor I can read anyone's minds - why even attempt to use this as an argument?
And even if conservatives believe that the poor people they are helping are at fault - doesn't the fact that they are helping them anyway - despite disapproving of the decisions they made - prove that conservatives are willing to set aside their differences?
It is logic like this that got Obama a Nobel Peace Prize for doing nothing.
In an ideal world, I would agree that it would be better if everyone who comes to the US does so legally. We don't live in an ideal world. We live in a world where some people are in circumstances so dangerous/violent, of such grinding poverty, of such lack of choices, of such hopelessness that they will leave behind everything and make a dangerous journey to another country to try to get in under the radar in the hope of some chance of a better life. Most of us will never know what that is like. Yet I hear conservatives who claim that people just come here illegally so they can get free stuff at the expense of American taxpayers. In fact, most people here illegally try to stay under the radar and avoid the "Migras" (immigration staff).
There are legal pathways to entering this country as either a refugee or an asylee.
If someone enters the country illegally and stays in this country they are a drain on the American taxpayer.
These are just facts. You don't have to like them.
And by the way, I hear those who complain about illegal immigration talking about brown people. NONE of them has complained in my hearing about people who are here illegally from Canada or Ireland or Australia. We make rom com movies about the pretty white woman from Canada trying to arrange a fake marriage to avoid deportation ("The Proposal")
If any foreign national from any foreign country marries an American citizen they are eligible to become a Lawful Permanent Resident.
Illegal entry into the U.S. is not a racial issue - but the majority of those who are entering the country illegally are Hispanic.
These are facts.
Your comment about "people being generous with other people's money (liberals) are not charitable." is just an off-topic political canard. We are talking about personal charity, which is what I posted about. Those I know who you would likely call "liberals" (because they aren't conservatives) donate to Habitat for Humanity, Heifer International, Wounded Warrior, Feeding America, local food pantries... We make meals through our churches for local homeless shelters. Donate clothing to Goodwill or Salvation Army. Collect school supplies for poor kids. Yes, I know conservatives who work at a food pantry; I have also heard them make negative observations about people "who have been coming there quite a while," knowing nothing about those people's lives.
Hey - you were the one comparing "left of center" people to Jesus - so you made this pretty political in my opinion.
Assuming that a poor person is to blame for their misfortune is no different than assuming that the poor person is not to blame.
It does not matter if the person giving aide believes either one or the other because they are giving aide regardless of what they believe about the other person.
And again it is liberals - not conservatives - who try to force others to give "charity" to whoever they consider the less fortunate - which no longer makes it charity.
As to politics, many of us believe it is to the benefit of the country as a whole to NOT have people starving or without health care or living in shacks, and therefore the government has a role in ameliorating that. It appears that bothers you. I don't think any of us confuse that with personal charity.
If the government did its actual job of enforcing our laws there would not be as many people on the street.