Intermarriage

[Secret Chief]

Seems I am. It's a total non-issue.

 

[Jake1001]

I have gained weight so Im at 310.I need to get down to 240 before I am comfortable with having sex.

How many calories do you eat each day ?

 

[Jake1001]

I have gained weight so Im at 310.I need to get down to 240 before I am comfortable with having sex.

Ok, this wasn’t exactly on topic, but it’s more interesting than the rest of the thread.

 

[Riders]

Ok, this wasn’t exactly on topic, but it’s more interesting than the rest of the thread.

Well Darril wants a relationship at 310 I can not do it. He willa lso want to have sex, he's giving me till the end of september. i will just have to see how i feel about it then.

 

[Muffled]

Well, here we go. My guy friend came by last night kissed me on the lips hugged me. That's all we do but we go at it. Anyway, he says now he wants me to start thinking about whether or not I want a relationship with him. He wants us to get to know each other till late summer, September, or October, and then maybe start a relationship/

I have already told him I would need to lose weight before we do that. If I can not shape up and lose weight this won't work. grant it I don't have to be thin, just a smaller size where I can walk a lot better and he wants sex. So I will have to be a smaller size so I can have sex comfortably.

But anyway he belongs to a Bible church he says which is like nondenominational.

To me, it is more like a conservative church but he does not go regularly because he is a taxi driver. He works a lot. But since the election in some ways, he seems very liberal but I think in other ways he is conservative. I told him I go to Zem meditation groups and that I don't believe in Jesus but that as a person who goes to Alcoholics Anonymous and OA I believe in one God the same way my Mom did when she started going to AA.

He is ok with that. I told him about my Mom going to AA and that I have been since she died even though I am not an alcoholic.I told him about my porn addiction issues and sexual promiscuity issues that I did the 12 Steps on.

He does not drink do drugs or smoke and neither do I. But he has a worldliness about him because having driven taxis his whole life he has seen a lot. He told me he no longer drives out to drug houses or those areas, in the past, he used to drive drug dealers and addicts to drug houses so he has seen a lot, this probably explains his laid back attitude with me and my recovery.


However, I brought up the religious topic and I told him I do Zen meditation group on the internet and tobecontinued

I attended Quaker meetings with a man who also did Buddhist meditation. He skipped hymn singing which was held before the meeting.

 

[Muffled]

Well Darril wants a relationship at 310 I can not do it. He willa lso want to have sex, he's giving me till the end of september. i will just have to see how i feel about it then.

I believe at times my wife was quite heavy and managed sex and my son also and he is about 360. I do believe you have to be honest with him about your feelings towards it.

 

[Riders]

I believe at times my wife was quite heavy and managed sex and my son also and he is about 360. I do believe you have to be honest with him about your feelings towards it.

A lot of people say that they know someone who experienced sex over 300. I have back problems though and I am only 5 feet 2 inches tall I should weigh 115 pounds. I can't lay on my back without hurting myself. If I get down to 250 maybe I could pull it off. I walk around slowly too for a 300 pound person.

 

[Jake1001]

Well Darril wants a relationship at 310 I can not do it. He willa lso want to have sex, he's giving me till the end of september. i will just have to see how i feel about it then.

You can do some things.

 

[Riders]

You can do some things.

I can but mostly he doesn't want it. I offered oral sex and a hand job and he said he doesn't like to let his own body be sexual like that unless he's having intercourse.So he really wants to go all the way which is unusual men don't usually turn me down for oral sex.