After two years of being single I finally met a girl who shared the same intrests in me, had a wonderful personality, and hasn't used me. After talking to her for about a month, she started to say things to me like "I wish i could tell you some stuff but i dont think you would like me any more..." etc. But I didn't want to deal with secrets. These were her secrets:
1. She's an athiest
-Reason? She doesn't understand why bad things happen to good people.
2. She' not a virgin
3. She is addicted to cutting.
You may be thinking that number 3 is the worst but for me personaly i can stant to bear thinking about 2. It really hurts.
So I gave it thought, asked some friends, and went and talked to my priest who said "Its time for you to be a big brother instead of a boyfriend." - I firmly believe this. However as the days went on I didn't want to become distant. She was really a great person just 'messed up'. I asked her to dance at prom and we held hands... Im going to hang out with her now. What is your opinion/advice? Please see it from my perspective too. Thanks
1. She's an athiest
-Reason? She doesn't understand why bad things happen to good people.
2. She' not a virgin
3. She is addicted to cutting.
You may be thinking that number 3 is the worst but for me personaly i can stant to bear thinking about 2. It really hurts.
So I gave it thought, asked some friends, and went and talked to my priest who said "Its time for you to be a big brother instead of a boyfriend." - I firmly believe this. However as the days went on I didn't want to become distant. She was really a great person just 'messed up'. I asked her to dance at prom and we held hands... Im going to hang out with her now. What is your opinion/advice? Please see it from my perspective too. Thanks