Yes I´m blending "related E&M things" together logically - and you don´t get the overall picture.
You too is a victim of a science which excludingly has divided the basic E&M up in three departmental branches, and you simply deny to look at the commonalities in these scientifically stupid E&M divisions.
I am not ignoring any electromagnetic theory at all, but it would seem that you have never understood even basic electromagnetic principles.
Are you forgetting that you wrote:
And you make this conclusion without even THINKING of the electromagnetically attractive force which binds all electromagnetically atoms and molecules together, The E&M STRONG FORCE.
You have forgotten a very important FACT about electromagnetic force, that
opposite-charged particles attract, eg positive-charged proton will attract negative-charged electron, like-charged particles repulse, eg 2 or more positive-charged protons should repulse each other inside the nucleus.
That’s how electromagnetic forces work, Native.
Inside the a nucleus of atom - eg helium has 2 protons & 2 neutrons inside the nucleus - 2 or more positive-charged protons should repel each other, based on the current theory of electromagnetism.
Have you completely forgotten that EM has forces that repel like-charged particles?
I have forgotten that EM forces work as both attractive and repelling forces, based on if there are respectively like-charged field and opposite-charged field.
You should also playing around with magnets, that they only attract each when their poles are polar opposite, but the magnets should repel each other when the same poles face each other. Basic principle in magnetic field.
So there must be a very different force acting inside the nucleus that are keeping all protons together, forces strong enough to counter EM repelling or repulsive force. This force is called
strong nuclear force.
The strong nuclear force is what stopping the like-charged particles from EM force repelling each other.
You must have failed badly in physics, if you don’t understand the such basic principles of how two or more same charged particles interact with each other. In EM, 2 protons should repel other, not attract each other; only strong nuclear force can counter EM’s repulsive force.
And as to EM being one force with strong nuclear force.
This is not possible since the earliest day of universe, when the universe was still extremely hot and extremely dense, that strong, weak and EM was one force during the 2nd phase of the Big Bang theory, the highly theoretical Grand Unification Epoch.
In the Planck Epoch (1st phase of BB), there was only one fundamental and “unified” force, that included gravitation, strong nuclear, weak nuclear and EM.
In the Grand Unification Epoch (GUE), the universe was cool enough for gravitation force was the first to separate from the unified force. The unified force of strong, weak and EM was collective known as electronuclear force. GUE started around 10^-43 second after the Big Bang.
Strong nuclear force was the next force to separate from unified force weak & EM, or more aptly known as electroweak force. Strong nuclear broke away during the Electroweak Epoch when the universe was 10^-36 second after the Big Bang.
To even have electroweak force exist today, the energy requirement has be greater than 246GeV (246 giga electro-volt) or temperature of 10^15 K (kelvin).
So can you imagine how hot it has to be, to unified 3 forces together as one?
For unified electronuclear force to exist, the energy has to be 10^15 GeV or temperature above 10^27 K.
Not even the most super massive star could achieve the temperature needed for either electronuclear or electroweak forces to exist.
Electroweak force didn’t separate into their respective EM force and weak nuclear force until 10^-12 second after the Big Bang, during the Quark Epoch, when temperature dropped to 159 GeV.
Each separation of the force from the unified force, is called “symmetry-breaking”.
To understand all of this, you should read up on particle physics, particularly on Higgs mechanics, quantum mechanics, quantum field theory, and of course, the latest model of the Big Bang theory.