Jim
Nets of Wonder
It might take a few more generations to stop toxic behavior online, and most of what needs to be done might be offline. Even so, I think that part of what needs to be done is online, in every social network and forum including this one, and I think that anything anyone does to actually help stop toxic behavior online might help stop all kinds of cruelty, violence and oppression offline.
Most or all of the denunciations of behavior that I’ve seen have actually been personal attacks across faction lines. which I think besides being toxic behavior in themselves, actually encourage that behavior and magnify its effects. That’s one reason for what I’ve been saying about people who want to help clearly distancing themselves from denunciations across faction lines.
Sometimes some of the worst behavior gets the most “Like”s, and sometimes even “Winner”s, because it’s entertaining or because it’s against a popular target of animosity. That might be a big part of what’s helping to perpetuate toxic behavior online. Any visible response to that behavior, friendly or hostile, rewards it and helps perpetuate it and magnify its effects.
One lame and contemptible excuse that I’ve seen for it is to stop the spread of misinformation. Another is the infantile “they started it.” Another is that the cruelty and personal attacks are just people saying honestly what they think, and anyone who objects to it is a sissy and/or enemy of free speech. Arguing about those excuses is another way of giving the behavior the kind of attention that helps perpetuate it and magnify its toxic effects.
Posting all this helps me clarify my thinking and brace myself against whatever personal attacks and harassment it might bring on me, and I’m hoping that it might do the same for others.
Most or all of the denunciations of behavior that I’ve seen have actually been personal attacks across faction lines. which I think besides being toxic behavior in themselves, actually encourage that behavior and magnify its effects. That’s one reason for what I’ve been saying about people who want to help clearly distancing themselves from denunciations across faction lines.
Sometimes some of the worst behavior gets the most “Like”s, and sometimes even “Winner”s, because it’s entertaining or because it’s against a popular target of animosity. That might be a big part of what’s helping to perpetuate toxic behavior online. Any visible response to that behavior, friendly or hostile, rewards it and helps perpetuate it and magnify its effects.
One lame and contemptible excuse that I’ve seen for it is to stop the spread of misinformation. Another is the infantile “they started it.” Another is that the cruelty and personal attacks are just people saying honestly what they think, and anyone who objects to it is a sissy and/or enemy of free speech. Arguing about those excuses is another way of giving the behavior the kind of attention that helps perpetuate it and magnify its toxic effects.
Posting all this helps me clarify my thinking and brace myself against whatever personal attacks and harassment it might bring on me, and I’m hoping that it might do the same for others.