I don't like the term QUEER to be associated with non-heterosexual orientations also.
I disagree.
I like the term queer better than the alphabet soup often used instead.
Because it's rather vague it's very inclusive. But it isn't too inclusive.
The social problems faced by gays and trans and other similar minorities have a good deal in common. Not necessarily more important than the problems faced by black people, immigrants, or uppity women or whatever, but different.
In the modern world the word queer does have meaning. People who don't fit the cis-het norm, in whatever way that they don't.
So, instead of the long string of capital letters that is bound to exclude someone who will object, I prefer the more encompassing term queer.
Frankly, one thing I like about it is that it's vague enough to include otherwise ordinary cis-het folks who go out of their way to support social equality for us more queer folks. They're still unusual, "queer", but becoming less so by the day.
Tom