I was found in bed with somebody else's girlfriend

[Spiderman]

So there is a cute girl whose company I enjoy. Wednesday am hours, she invites me into an apartment. She never told me that it was her boyfriends place, neither did I know she had a boyfriend.

He walked back to his apartment to find me and his girlfriend in the same bed (his bed) together.

He just said WTF! I apologized to him and gave him a lighter. He was quite easy going all things considered.

The next day somebody told me "stay away from Draya or you will be killed."

Thoughts?

 

[Subduction Zone]

She may have been using you. Girls sometimes want more attention from their boyfriends and they are not afraid to use another as a dupe to get that attention. At any rate she cannot be trusted. If she was really attracted to you she would not put you in harm's way as she did in the scenario that you laid out.

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

I would stay away from her. She sounds like a crappy person if she didn't tell you she has a boyfriend. As for the threat, if they don't leave you alone, go to the police.

 

[BSM1]

Yeah, stay away Draya so you won't be killed.

 

[Revoltingest]

Thoughts?

You dawg!

 

[Kangaroo Feathers]

So there is a cute girl whose company I enjoy. Wednesday am hours, she invites me into an apartment. She never told me that it was her boyfriends place, neither did I know she had a boyfriend.

He walked back to his apartment to find me and his girlfriend in the same bed (his bed) together.

He just said WTF! I apologized to him and gave him a lighter. He was quite easy going all things considered.

The next day somebody told me "stay away from Draya or you will be killed."

Thoughts?

I think you should stay away from Draya.

 

[metis]

Back when in college, I had three dates with women that were going with someone else, and two were informally engaged even though I didn't know that until afterword. However, that didn't keep them from "fooling around" with me.

To the OP, best to stay away.

 

[Spiderman]

My glasses are bent from getting hit. Whatever you do, don't abuse drugs or alcohol. This never happens to me while sober.

I actually got hit for a totally different reason. I saw some stranger about to run off with her money without getting her any "stuff", so I got him to give her the money back then he hit me in the face.

 

[Spiderman]

Never a dull moment... please pray for me to stay sober. I keep failing miserably.

 

[Axe Elf]

Is this the same girl that invited you back to her place a few weeks ago and you swore up and down that you weren't interested in sleeping with her?

 

[Spiderman]

Is this the same girl that invited you back to her place a few weeks ago and you swore up and down that you weren't interested in sleeping with her?

I was not attempting to get laid. I was simply hanging out and I could tell she was looking for company and happy to see me. I'm told she is very dangerous and has even cried "rape" as a false accusation in the past.

Someone informed me that she has a reputation that keeps people away from her.

I just need to stay sober and never enter a room or place which I'm not invited to. I guess I'm going to heed the warning or suffer serious consequences. This is stuff people should know as children. I've got to grow up, but am grateful for this lesson.

 

[Axe Elf]

I was not attempting to get laid. I was simply hanging out and I could tell she was looking for company and happy to see me. I'm told she is very dangerous and has even cried "rape" as a false accusation in the past.

Someone informed me that she has a reputation that keeps people away from her.

I just need to stay sober and never enter a room or place which I'm not invited to. I guess I'm going to heed the warning or suffer serious consequences. This is stuff people should know as children. I've got to grow up, but am grateful for this lesson.

You didn't answer the question; is this the same girl?

 

[Spiderman]

You didn't answer the question; is this the same girl?

Yes...she really has an irresistable smile and seems very happy to see me. I enjoy her company. That is all.

This isn't about sex nor was it some future goal. She is clearly not well. Neither am i. It could lead to something very unhealthy.

 

[Axe Elf]

Yes...she really has an irresistable smile and seems very happy to see me. I enjoy her company. That is all.

This isn't about sex nor was it some future goal. She is clearly not well. Neither am i. It could lead to something very unhealthy.

LOL!

Oh boy, right again...

You should check out this album...

The Mountain Goats - Tallahassee - YouTube

from Wikipedia:

Tallahassee
by The Mountain Goats

"Tallahassee is completely devoted to two of Darnielle's recurring characters, a married couple constantly on the edge of divorce. As such, the lyrics tend to focus on the dysfunction in their relationship. The couple is known to fans as "the Alpha Couple," as many of the previous songs about them have titles beginning with the word "Alpha" (e.g. "Alpha Incipiens," "Alpha Desperation March"). The final song on the album is titled "Alpha Rats Nest" as a nod of sorts to the other songs.

In the songs on this album, the Alpha Couple move into a house on Southwood Plantation Road in Tallahassee, Florida. The house is falling apart, a metaphor for their crumbling marriage. Sick of themselves and each other, yet unwilling to part, they begin drinking themselves to death."

 

[Spiderman]

LOL!

Oh boy, right again...

You should check out this album...

The Mountain Goats - Tallahassee - YouTube

from Wikipedia:

Tallahassee
by The Mountain Goats

"Tallahassee is completely devoted to two of Darnielle's recurring characters, a married couple constantly on the edge of divorce. As such, the lyrics tend to focus on the dysfunction in their relationship. The couple is known to fans as "the Alpha Couple," as many of the previous songs about them have titles beginning with the word "Alpha" (e.g. "Alpha Incipiens," "Alpha Desperation March"). The final song on the album is titled "Alpha Rats Nest" as a nod of sorts to the other songs.

In the songs on this album, the Alpha Couple move into a house on Southwood Plantation Road in Tallahassee, Florida. The house is falling apart, a metaphor for their crumbling marriage. Sick of themselves and each other, yet unwilling to part, they begin drinking themselves to death."

With the grace of God, I intend to dodge this bullet.

 

[Axe Elf]

With the grace of God, I intend to dodge this bullet.

"This is a plan for full-dressed mayhem;
In an unquiet mind, biology kicks virtue's a$$ every time..."

 

[Spiderman]

She may have been using you. Girls sometimes want more attention from their boyfriends and they are not afraid to use another as a dupe to get that attention. At any rate she cannot be trusted. If she was really attracted to you she would not put you in harm's way as she did in the scenario that you laid out.

So you think she brought me to her boyfriends room to see us fight? That's messed up if true.

 

[Subduction Zone]

So you think she brought me to her boyfriends room to see us fight? That's messed up if true.

Not necessarily to fight. But if he hurt you she probably would not have any remorse. Think it through. It was his place, there was no doubt that he would be back sometime. She gave no warning. As everyone else has said, she is bad news and probably using you.

 

[columbus]

So you think she brought me to her boyfriends room to see us fight? That's messed up if true.

I didn't think her being "messed up" was really in question.
That's kind of the point here, isn't it?
Tom