Absolutely. I believe the only suloution is to "agree to disagree" -- that is, let each separate body maintain its own identity and polity, but agree to share fully with each other.
What is the point of maintaining individuality ... but at the same time pretending to be one in Communion?
I would understand if you folks wanted to be allowed to come home to the Church but continue to work for the "reforms" you still desire while taking Communion.... but it really makes no sense to me what the point of Communion is if it has NOTHING to do with community.....??????????
Like I said before... I would advocate open communion... but I suppose I should clarify that. I would want non-Catholics to be able to partake of "our" Eucharist... but I would NEVER allow a Catholic to partake in a service outside of the Church. We don't believe that any of the Protestant groups has a valid Eucharist, so communion in that sense would be impossible. I personally would never take communion at an Anglican liturgy.... it would be an empty lie.... I would sooner die than damn myself in such a way.
You see, the Church has always tought that Communion was about more than ourselves and what it did for us. It is CHRISTOCENTRIC... and not about a false sense of ecumenism to make the community "feel better" about each other. One of the oldest Christian teachings explained this about the Eucharist:
"But every Lord's day gather yourselves together, and break bread, and give thanksgiving after having confessed your transgressions, that your sacrifice may be pure. But let no one who is at odds with his fellow come together with you, until they be reconciled, that your sacrifice may not be profaned. For this is that which was spoken by the Lord: "In every place and time offer to me a pure sacrifice; for I am a great King, says the Lord, and my name is wonderful among the nations."
-Didache Ch 14 (emphasis mine)
.... and unless and until you are not at odds with Catholic teaching, you should not partake in Communion with us. To take communion with your Catholic brothers and sisters means that you believe what they believe... and if you don't, well... your conscience SHOULD tell you not to profane the sacrament with a selfish desire for a false unity.
And if that day comes that your are reconciled with the Church, then we will follow the same ancient catechism:
"But let no one eat or drink of your Eucharist, unless they have been baptized into the name of the Lord; for concerning this also the Lord has said, "Give not that which is holy to the dogs."
Didache Ch 9
I know Church teachings and history pre-Reformation are not that important to those outside the RCC or Orthodox, but you have to understand that it is quite important to us... and we are not (in fact, CAN NOT) going to change that for some false sense of ecumenism.
I do pray that one day soon you will be able to share in the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of our Lord Jesus Christ sitting side by side with me. :shout
In Christ,
S