IMO
I noticed in the first quote above that you are arguing against a need for compromise and consensus and in the second quote there is an acknowledgement that some compromise is required.
And in this quote above you seem to express value in keeping humanity unified to some degree, that there is some value to operating within a shared, agreed upon framework. I would suggest that objective external reality is the best candidate for that shared framework. Acknowledging and accepting objective reality does not dictate how we *feel* about it, nor does it dictate our individual values, needs, wants, and desires. It simply provides an objective framework upon which to balance "mutual cooperation and autonomy regardless of our stories" and "help keep us unified."
I would also like to point out that we have not addressed how we arrive at, and all the factors that inform, our individual "stories". How much of each persons story is directly attributable to whom they were born to, where they were born, and when they were born? What percentage of an individuals "story" is pre-written for them to learn and adopt and how much is their own unique creation? Much of the instruction and dictation in "stories" is done before an individual is deemed mature and independent.
You asked "Why not just accept that we each invent our own piece of the story", and I would say because we don't invent our own stories, by and large. Wouldn't you agree?
Why do you keep assuming that we are supposed to "reconcile our differences"? Compromise and form consensus? Why not just accept that we each invent our own piece of the story, and respect that in doing so we are stronger and wiser than had we all been always telling the same story?
We can kill each other trying to force everyone to abide by 'the one right story', or we can accept and respect that we are all going to develop our own stories and it's not about who's story is right, but about balancing mutual cooperation and autonomy regardless of our stories..
I noticed in the first quote above that you are arguing against a need for compromise and consensus and in the second quote there is an acknowledgement that some compromise is required.
Valid according to what? They are all valid according to those that hold them, and invalid according to those who hold to a different story. This is what we need to finally accept, and accommodate.
We are all still deriving our stories from our experience of existing, though, so that is bound to limit and determine the stories we invent. And help keep us unified. We are all as much the same as we are different, after all.
And in this quote above you seem to express value in keeping humanity unified to some degree, that there is some value to operating within a shared, agreed upon framework. I would suggest that objective external reality is the best candidate for that shared framework. Acknowledging and accepting objective reality does not dictate how we *feel* about it, nor does it dictate our individual values, needs, wants, and desires. It simply provides an objective framework upon which to balance "mutual cooperation and autonomy regardless of our stories" and "help keep us unified."
I would also like to point out that we have not addressed how we arrive at, and all the factors that inform, our individual "stories". How much of each persons story is directly attributable to whom they were born to, where they were born, and when they were born? What percentage of an individuals "story" is pre-written for them to learn and adopt and how much is their own unique creation? Much of the instruction and dictation in "stories" is done before an individual is deemed mature and independent.
You asked "Why not just accept that we each invent our own piece of the story", and I would say because we don't invent our own stories, by and large. Wouldn't you agree?