I have a friend and coworker who is an addict.
She is great at what she does, is very smart, but is hindered by her addiction brought forth by lack of self-worth and depression.
Her parents are both dead, and she lost her sister to an overdose. She has a living brother, who, by my assessment, as all but disowned her as a result of her addiction. She has a 6 year old son who is currently living with her ex-mother-in-law who admires her and wants to be a part of her life.
She still struggles with her depression and her lacking sense of worth, and I find myself often offering her more aid than she is willing to lend herself.
She spent a year sober, relapsed in the last month, has detoxed, and is currently clean, but shows signs of relapsing again for the same reasons as above.
As much as I want to help her (and I find myself predisposed to doing so), I find myself torn between responsibility for her well-being and responsibility to self. I don't want to fail her, as am not sure how I'd handle finding out that she was dead as a result of an OD, but I feel that I risk sacrificing self should I continue my obsession with making sure she's okay.
I'm looking for a moral compass here. What are your thoughts?
She is great at what she does, is very smart, but is hindered by her addiction brought forth by lack of self-worth and depression.
Her parents are both dead, and she lost her sister to an overdose. She has a living brother, who, by my assessment, as all but disowned her as a result of her addiction. She has a 6 year old son who is currently living with her ex-mother-in-law who admires her and wants to be a part of her life.
She still struggles with her depression and her lacking sense of worth, and I find myself often offering her more aid than she is willing to lend herself.
She spent a year sober, relapsed in the last month, has detoxed, and is currently clean, but shows signs of relapsing again for the same reasons as above.
As much as I want to help her (and I find myself predisposed to doing so), I find myself torn between responsibility for her well-being and responsibility to self. I don't want to fail her, as am not sure how I'd handle finding out that she was dead as a result of an OD, but I feel that I risk sacrificing self should I continue my obsession with making sure she's okay.
I'm looking for a moral compass here. What are your thoughts?