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Have you ever been in a relationship that made you want to kill yourself?

Discussion in 'Family and Personal Living' started by PopeADope, Aug 24, 2019.

  1. PopeADope

    PopeADope Habemus papam

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    Have you ever fallen in love, and in the end the relationship made you want to kill yourself for whatever reason?
     
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    No, if there been problems in my relationship with my fianceè we talk to each other and find a solution to the problems we face. So no need to end my life because of a few discussions.
     
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  3. Quagmire

    Quagmire Imaginary talking monkey
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    Yes, at least twice.
     
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  4. PopeADope

    PopeADope Habemus papam

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    It's one of the reasons falling in love sucks in my opinion. I'm very skeptical of such feelings when they arise.
     
  5. PopeADope

    PopeADope Habemus papam

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    I no longer trust those butterflies in the stomach because of what they can lead to.
     
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    I haven't gone that far into thinking in regards to relationships, no.
     
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    Personally, no.
    If you are in a relationship like that, please allow me a little advice: go back to being single.
     
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  8. Salvador

    Salvador RF's Swedenborgian

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    We're caught in a trap
    We can't walk out
    Because I love her too much, Margie
    Why can't she see
    What she's doing to me
    When she won't believe a word I say?
    We can't go on together
    With suspicious minds (suspicious minds)
    We can't build our dreams
    On suspicious minds
    So, if an old friend I know
    Stops by to say hello
    Would I still see suspicion in her eyes?
    There she goes again
    Asking where I've been
    She can't see the tears are real
    I'm crying (Yes, I'm crying)
    We can't go on together
    With suspicious minds (suspicious minds)
    We can't build our dreams
    On suspicious minds
    Oh, let my love for her survive
    Or dry the tears from her eyes
    Let's don't let a good thing die
    I want my honey to know
    I've never lied to her
    Mmm, yeah, yeah
    We're caught in a trap
    We can't walk out
    Because I love her too much, Margie
    Why can't she see
    What she's doing to me
    When she won't believe a word I say?
    Doesn't she know I'm caught in a trap
    We can't walk out
    Because I love her too much, Margie

     
  9. SalixIncendium

    SalixIncendium सच्चितानन्द
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    No, though immediately after I split up from with my third wife and moved out of the house with my elder daughter, she knew I owned a gun and called the police to have it removed because she thought our separation would make me suicidal. And the police officer came to my door and explained why they were taking my gun away, I couldn't help but burst out in laughter.
     
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  10. Salvador

    Salvador RF's Swedenborgian

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    Good case and point on how "red flag" laws can be abused.
     
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    SalixIncendium सच्चितानन्द
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    Not really. I collected it the next day at the station when I explained the absurdity of the claim.
     
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  12. sooda

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    Absolutely not.
     
  13. Salvador

    Salvador RF's Swedenborgian

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    I'm sorry to hear your 2nd Amendment Constitutional rights had been infringed upon; fortunately, you were able to promptly retrieve your rightful property.
     
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  14. ChristineM

    ChristineM "Be strong" I whispered to my coffee.
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    Not love but a relationship that i considered suicide to escape from
     
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  15. FooYang

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    Actually the opposite. I once "fell into hate" with a work colleague many years ago when I worked a cafe job for a while. We had this kind of sexual tension, it was ****ing strange as hell dude. We both wanted to kill and **** each other, if you know what I mean. She was a b**** and we never got intimate but it was depressingly erotically depressing.

    Luckily that job was only a few months or else I would've gotten suicidal :sweatsmile:

    Basically that experience was a weird time on planet earth.
     
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  16. Nowhere Man

    Nowhere Man Bompu Zen Man with a little bit of Bushido.

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    Probably a gazillion times.

    I was was a dumb teenager then.
     
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  17. PopeADope

    PopeADope Habemus papam

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    That's incredible! :D
     
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  18. Rival

    Rival Noachide
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    I had this personal relationship with Jesus once. It didn't work out
     
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    I've been there. It was wanting to follow Him when He called, but Him simply not giving me sufficient information to do so.

    I finally got the info I needed, but it did set me on a slightly different path.
     
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