So a few years ago I fell in with the so called "anti SJW" crowd. I have since left that corner of the internet due to it's toxicity and I guess for lack of a better term, "grew up."
But why did I fall for their hyperbolic rhetoric, especially since I learnt how to spot and combat obvious rhetoric (ironically from the very people who later embraced the alt right and then were similarly burnt. Thundy why bro, just why?) Apart from me just being my usual dumb self, of course.
I bring this up in the feminist section because I think it does point to some frustration and anxiety from millennial fledgling would be feminists (or at least allies) experiencing restlessness in the movement. Experiencing a sort of disillusionment with the cause and confusion at the discussions. I think it's important to understand why kids can fall into such crowds because in essence other groups are offering something that is lacking. At least from the perspective of said kids. But why?
Feminists often splinter off and disagree with their elders, that's normal.
But what about the anti side is enticing for today's generation of otherwise liberal minded kids?
I guess for me at least, it was a combination of a few things. Not always getting pragmatic solutions from my older feminist brethren, therefore lacking the mentor-esque facet younger me was trying to find within the movement, I guess. Being on the outside of American politics (seriously, both your sides are crazy extreme) therefore not completely understanding the context to what I was encountering and chaffing under the moral policing that I often encounter from the left. (From both countries, for what it's worth. Right wing rhetoric is easier to mock because it's crazy and delusional. But Left wing rhetoric sounds like a bunch of helicopter parents banded together and decided to go to Parliament/Congress to give lectures that would make even Helen Lovejoy call them overprotective. Being a gamer, this is an easy way to instantly lose me, even if I end up agreeing with you.)
Being quite desensitized to online trolling. And a few bouts of sickness, rendering me bored, angry and surfing YouTube/forums far more often than normal. Add to that a bad temper, a dose of naivety and to be fair some examples of feminism that looks a bit out there to outsiders and you have the makings of someone wanting to rebel against a cause, for lack of a better term.
Sure, in hindsight, the movement was toxic, was making me toxic and really was just the other side of the extreme.
A lot of us did end up disowning both the Anti SJWs and the SJWs.
So is this just a case of an embarrassed middle ground millennial whining because they got suckered into an obvious toxic environment? Most likely.
But there does seem to be a disconnect between younger feminists and the bad PR they want to distance themselves from at all costs. And the movement itself. I'm just not smart enough to articulate exactly why, though.
But why did I fall for their hyperbolic rhetoric, especially since I learnt how to spot and combat obvious rhetoric (ironically from the very people who later embraced the alt right and then were similarly burnt. Thundy why bro, just why?) Apart from me just being my usual dumb self, of course.
I bring this up in the feminist section because I think it does point to some frustration and anxiety from millennial fledgling would be feminists (or at least allies) experiencing restlessness in the movement. Experiencing a sort of disillusionment with the cause and confusion at the discussions. I think it's important to understand why kids can fall into such crowds because in essence other groups are offering something that is lacking. At least from the perspective of said kids. But why?
Feminists often splinter off and disagree with their elders, that's normal.
But what about the anti side is enticing for today's generation of otherwise liberal minded kids?
I guess for me at least, it was a combination of a few things. Not always getting pragmatic solutions from my older feminist brethren, therefore lacking the mentor-esque facet younger me was trying to find within the movement, I guess. Being on the outside of American politics (seriously, both your sides are crazy extreme) therefore not completely understanding the context to what I was encountering and chaffing under the moral policing that I often encounter from the left. (From both countries, for what it's worth. Right wing rhetoric is easier to mock because it's crazy and delusional. But Left wing rhetoric sounds like a bunch of helicopter parents banded together and decided to go to Parliament/Congress to give lectures that would make even Helen Lovejoy call them overprotective. Being a gamer, this is an easy way to instantly lose me, even if I end up agreeing with you.)
Being quite desensitized to online trolling. And a few bouts of sickness, rendering me bored, angry and surfing YouTube/forums far more often than normal. Add to that a bad temper, a dose of naivety and to be fair some examples of feminism that looks a bit out there to outsiders and you have the makings of someone wanting to rebel against a cause, for lack of a better term.
Sure, in hindsight, the movement was toxic, was making me toxic and really was just the other side of the extreme.
A lot of us did end up disowning both the Anti SJWs and the SJWs.
So is this just a case of an embarrassed middle ground millennial whining because they got suckered into an obvious toxic environment? Most likely.
But there does seem to be a disconnect between younger feminists and the bad PR they want to distance themselves from at all costs. And the movement itself. I'm just not smart enough to articulate exactly why, though.